Hi everyone, I’m new here and English isn’t my main language so sorry if I make any mistakes, but I have a lil problem with my crush... It would be very nice if you could help me!
So, at my school, there is this boy, he’s one year older than me and he’s in year 11 (I’m in year 10). I noticed him in January and I just thought ‘wow he’s really cute’, just the stuff girls think when they see a cute guy
I didn’t really believe that he might notice me, but he did.
Over weeks then, we’ve had a lot of eye contact (the thing here is; he didn’t look away when our eyes met (like shy guys usually do, I thought...), he just stared at me!) and also there were some signs that could mean something.
For example, once we were in the supermarket near our school to buy lunch, when I nearly bumped into him and his mate. No big deal, but then his mate said something like ‘ooh’, but not like ‘ooh she bumped into us’, more like ‘ooh look who we’ve got here!’ – you know what I mean?
Another sign was when we were in the cafeteria, my friend and me sat on a table, which was right in a corner and we could look directly to my crush and his mate. But he sat with his side to us, so we could ‘observe’ him without any doubt but if he wanted to ‘observe’ us without looking suspicious he should have turned his chair 45° (can you follow me? ;D sorry for my English again, I hope you understand what I want to tell you :/).
And that’s also what he did, even if his friend sat opposite, he turned his chair around so that he sat opposite us. I wasn’t sure about the meaning behind this gesture, because why the hell would someone just turn his chair AWAY FROM YOUR MATE OR WHATEVER?!
Later, I read something about body language because I’m very interested in it, and there people spoke a lot about the feet. If someone’s feet are pointing towards you, it means that his/her whole attention applies to you. And that what happened with my crush, his feet were pointing towards me, and also, he sat there like he’d have a lot of confidence (that’s what the body language book said^^, I don’t know if it’s relevant here xD).
I was so confused about that cafeteria-thing...!
But that’s not all, another time he and his mate were walking past us (his mate was having a phone call btw) when suddenly he teased my crush by touching his elbow (he sort of pinched it haha^^) and I guess everyone knows that teasing can mean something very good
The thing with the chair happened again another time, it was kind of the same situation as in the cafeteria…
And then the last ‘very obvious sign’ was when the girls from his class saw that I stared at him a lot and then they teased him by hugging him and giving him a high five and so on. And when he was hugging these girls, he always looked at me, like he wanted to make sure I’m watching and maybe even to make sure I’m getting jealous (this sentence sounds so wrong ;D)…
Basically, this is the main part of my story, I could tell you much more things about all the things he did, but most of time it was just staring at me.
Please can someone tell me what all those things mean and what I should do? Because we’ve never talked but I really want to get to know him! This is like the first time ever someone really shows interests in me and I just want to utilize this…!
Thanks for helping me out, love you guys xx
So, at my school, there is this boy, he’s one year older than me and he’s in year 11 (I’m in year 10). I noticed him in January and I just thought ‘wow he’s really cute’, just the stuff girls think when they see a cute guy
I didn’t really believe that he might notice me, but he did.
Over weeks then, we’ve had a lot of eye contact (the thing here is; he didn’t look away when our eyes met (like shy guys usually do, I thought...), he just stared at me!) and also there were some signs that could mean something.
For example, once we were in the supermarket near our school to buy lunch, when I nearly bumped into him and his mate. No big deal, but then his mate said something like ‘ooh’, but not like ‘ooh she bumped into us’, more like ‘ooh look who we’ve got here!’ – you know what I mean?
Another sign was when we were in the cafeteria, my friend and me sat on a table, which was right in a corner and we could look directly to my crush and his mate. But he sat with his side to us, so we could ‘observe’ him without any doubt but if he wanted to ‘observe’ us without looking suspicious he should have turned his chair 45° (can you follow me? ;D sorry for my English again, I hope you understand what I want to tell you :/).
And that’s also what he did, even if his friend sat opposite, he turned his chair around so that he sat opposite us. I wasn’t sure about the meaning behind this gesture, because why the hell would someone just turn his chair AWAY FROM YOUR MATE OR WHATEVER?!
Later, I read something about body language because I’m very interested in it, and there people spoke a lot about the feet. If someone’s feet are pointing towards you, it means that his/her whole attention applies to you. And that what happened with my crush, his feet were pointing towards me, and also, he sat there like he’d have a lot of confidence (that’s what the body language book said^^, I don’t know if it’s relevant here xD).
I was so confused about that cafeteria-thing...!
But that’s not all, another time he and his mate were walking past us (his mate was having a phone call btw) when suddenly he teased my crush by touching his elbow (he sort of pinched it haha^^) and I guess everyone knows that teasing can mean something very good
The thing with the chair happened again another time, it was kind of the same situation as in the cafeteria…
And then the last ‘very obvious sign’ was when the girls from his class saw that I stared at him a lot and then they teased him by hugging him and giving him a high five and so on. And when he was hugging these girls, he always looked at me, like he wanted to make sure I’m watching and maybe even to make sure I’m getting jealous (this sentence sounds so wrong ;D)…
Basically, this is the main part of my story, I could tell you much more things about all the things he did, but most of time it was just staring at me.
Please can someone tell me what all those things mean and what I should do? Because we’ve never talked but I really want to get to know him! This is like the first time ever someone really shows interests in me and I just want to utilize this…!
Thanks for helping me out, love you guys xx
Id love to hear what happens 
hope I helped. 
