Quanta wrote:
Actually I did help. But you also told me i'm a "bad person" so meh.
and who's fault was that?
Should I give up?
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I'm just saying, if you want help don't insult me whilst i'm trying to. You don't know if i'm a bad person or not.[CENTER][SIGPIC][/SIGPIC][/CENTER]
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I haven't insulted you in this thread yet, keep helping me.
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Ah but you did in another thread, but i'll help.
As i said before, two options.
Read over that and see if your answer is "yes" to them all. If so, completely go for it if you could be a competent mother and know for sure that he loves you back. I hope the age gap isn't too ridiculous (like 10 years) because that would be a big issue.
In the end the choice is yours. Love is hard to come by but you are still young. You can either play it safe or risk everything.[CENTER][SIGPIC][/SIGPIC][/CENTER] -
You're seventeen, you've got just a little ways to go before ya'll are legal.
Why end it now?
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Quanta wrote:
Ah but you did in another thread, but i'll help.
As i said before, two options.
Read over that and see if your answer is "yes" to them all. If so, completely go for it if you could be a competent mother and know for sure that he loves you back. I hope the age gap isn't too ridiculous (like 10 years) because that would be a big issue.
In the end the choice is yours. Love is hard to come by but you are still young. You can either play it safe or risk everything.
What's wrong with a large age gap?
We love each other, whether he's 25 or 66.
Noise wrote:
You're seventeen, you've got just a little ways to go before ya'll are legal.
Why end it now?
yeah I agree!
Plus the age of sexual consent in NY is 17 so hey
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Pink_ wrote:
We love each other, whether he's 25 or 66.
ya
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I guess it's commonly looked down upon in society, wherein the couple is ostracised for being different. Harsh but true.
Additionally he's in a whole different world to you and there's technically a generation gap. It's just harder to maintain and there's a reason why it doesn't happen very much at all.
How many people in their 20's do you know who are married to someone in their 60's? There's a reason.[CENTER][SIGPIC][/SIGPIC][/CENTER] -
Noise wrote:
NY = pedo heaven.
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Ya
True story: I was in love with a thirty-something year old.
so true ♥ ♥ ♥
GIRL I DON'T BLAME YOU.
I had a crush on a 35 yr old teacher at my high school for like 2 years and another one who's probably 40 or 50 back and forth for like 4 years. Older men are hot. -
Pink_ wrote:
so true ♥ ♥ ♥
GIRL I DON'T BLAME YOU.
I had a crush on a 35 yr old teacher at my high school for like 2 years and another one who's probably 40 or 50 back and forth for like 4 years. Older men are hot.
I don't think it's because they're older. It has more to do with their intelligence. I can have a conversation with a 30yo without them staring at my boobs, or constantly asking for sex.
But ya Mr. teacher man tutor me
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Noise wrote:
I don't think it's because they're older. It has more to do with their intelligence. I can have a conversation with a 30yo without them staring at my boobs, or constantly asking for sex.
But ya Mr. teacher man tutor me
yeah, and generally they are financially stable and mature, as well as being past the stage in their lives where they aren't acting out like teens and younger men.
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How old is this guy exactly?
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There's an easy solution for this considering these:
1. You've never met him, both hiding behind screens.
2. He's married, don't be a home wrecker.
3. He's retired, he's probably 3x your age.
4. You're 17, still going through puberty and haven't had many life experiences. Naive.
I'd recommend for you to drop this whole thing, nothing good is going to come out of it. There are plenty of guys who are just as mature, intelligent, and financially stable that are near your age and who are single, why not find them? -
JustMe22 wrote:
How old is this guy exactly?
Older than your mom.
ComplicatedMind wrote:
There's an easy solution for this considering these:
1. You've never met him, both hiding behind screens.
2. He's married, don't be a home wrecker.
3. He's retired, he's probably 3x your age.
4. You're 17, still going through puberty and haven't had many life experiences. Naive.
I'd recommend for you to drop this whole thing, nothing good is going to come out of it. There are plenty of guys who are just as mature, intelligent, and financially stable that are near your age and who are single, why not find them?
Because I already love him! Why should I have to give up something so special that I've devoted my life to for the past 2 years? -
Was that a diss? Cant really tell..
And to be honest, if you were a good friend of mine, i would tell you to drop the whole thing as well... sorry
its going to be hard but youre still so young and so beautiful. Dont put yourself in a situation like this. Youre going to find someone else, i assure you its all just a matter of time. Its just my opinion hope it helps. I love meeting new people. PM me if you wanna chat. -
JustMe22 wrote:
Was that a diss? Cant really tell..
And to be honest, if you were a good friend of mine, i would tell you to drop the whole thing as well... sorry its going to be hard but youre still so young and so beautiful. Dont put yourself in a situation like this. Youre going to find someone else, i assure you its all just a matter of time. Its just my opinion hope it helps.
lmao no I was just saying he is older than your mother!!!
Thanks :''''''')
Yeah I know I'm probably not being smart about this but it's hard to let someone go that you love so much :( -
Does he by chance have ... Binders fulla women?
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Oh hahaha.
Anytime
For sure its going to be hard..
Have you made your decision on what to do yet?I love meeting new people. PM me if you wanna chat. -
Kyle. wrote:
Does he by chance have ... Binders fulla women?
NO HE ISN'T SEXIST LIKE YOU.
JustMe22 wrote:
Oh hahaha.
Anytime
For sure its going to be hard..
Have you made your decision on what to do yet?
nope I think I'll Skype him tomorrow and talk about feelings and give him an ultimatum :'( -
Alrighty then. Best of luck to ya.I love meeting new people. PM me if you wanna chat.
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