Hey! So I guess I am just looking for someone to help me sort out the out the craziness that is.. well... me. (btw in 17 yr old girl)
So for a bit now (maybe a year and a half) I have thought I am bi.
Recently though, I had a conversation with my friend (we get into weird conversations, don't ask me how we ended up on this topic because I don't know) and we ended up talking about... how do i put this delicately... how horny she usually is. She was saying that she is usually vaguely horny though out the day, or something like this. This made me realize that I basically am never horny. Like just doesn't happen.
I mean I find people (def guys and girls) attractive and I will have crushes on people, but I don't, for example, see someone and imagine having sex with them or anything. I also want to date, but when I think of why I want to date people its more for the like emotional/talky/romantic stuff, not so much for the sexual stuff or anything like that.
Just to throw a curveball, sometimes when I am high I will have an urge to kiss some of my friends...
Any ideas on whats going on/what I might be/label myself as?
So for a bit now (maybe a year and a half) I have thought I am bi.
Recently though, I had a conversation with my friend (we get into weird conversations, don't ask me how we ended up on this topic because I don't know) and we ended up talking about... how do i put this delicately... how horny she usually is. She was saying that she is usually vaguely horny though out the day, or something like this. This made me realize that I basically am never horny. Like just doesn't happen.
I mean I find people (def guys and girls) attractive and I will have crushes on people, but I don't, for example, see someone and imagine having sex with them or anything. I also want to date, but when I think of why I want to date people its more for the like emotional/talky/romantic stuff, not so much for the sexual stuff or anything like that.
Just to throw a curveball, sometimes when I am high I will have an urge to kiss some of my friends...
Any ideas on whats going on/what I might be/label myself as?
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