So I guess this is probably the best place to put this. If not feel free to move it. My little brother has lately been asking me general questions about growing up and his body and stuff which I have no problem answering since it's a lot less embarrassing to ask me over our mom, but lately he keeps asking if he can masturbate with me so he can see and learn how to do it. I'm not sure if this is a good idea or not. It just seems like it would be really weird doing that in front of him, especially with him watching me like he is studying me or something but if I don't help him then who will he go to? I don't know what I should do. Is it OK for brothers to masturbate in front of each other or is that wrong?
Masturbating with my brother
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I am assuming that your brother is to young to even want to know about this kind of stuff (correct me if I'm wrong)
If you teach him how to masturbate early,that is not setting a good example...
At least wait until he's 18
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therealmax wrote:
He just turned 12 last month so I mean idk I feel like that's about the right age. I just want him to learn from a better source than porn like I did if that makes sense
I understand that you want your 12 year old brother
to learn "from a better source"...
but I don't know if you noticed that 12 year olds shouldn't know how
how to masturbate at such a young age.
Don't you think?
I mean like, he's not even a teen yet any way to even be thinking about
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I get what you are saying about him being to young. But on the subject of age I really think it comes down to personal preference/beliefs. I honestly feel that when he's ready and wanting to learn about masturbating like he does now, that he's old enough to start doing it. But I do appreciate and value your input and advice about the problem that I am having, so thanks
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therealmax wrote:
I get what you are saying about him being to young. But on the subject of age I really think it comes down to personal preference/beliefs. I honestly feel that when he's ready and wanting to learn about masturbating like he does now, that he's old enough to start doing it. But I do appreciate and value your input and advice about the problem that I am having, so thanks
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uh, actually, let me put another dude's perspective in this: I started masturbating in between the age of 11 and 12, it's the natural age to find out that a tingling in the loins can lead to a pleasurous emotion. But I didn'tneed to learn it from anyone, and neither does he, he just needs to explore and hit the gold mine on his own. Don't "teach" himhow to jerk, let him figure it out through trial and error, only way you can go about it lol
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nah, it's not really weird, but remember that every guy goes through a slightly curious phase. What do you think'll happen afterwords? what happens if he asks you to do it with him again? Eventually, he'll get comfortable with it. You might wanna avoid thatI am the true Don, and as one, you know my life as a life worth inquiring about :cool:
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Honestly I have a twin and ya we do it so why not. But keep hands off, let him do it.
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therealmax wrote:
Well we did do it last night, and I'm not going to lie we actually had a pretty fun time which surprised me that I actually enjoyed it. He's already asked to do it again which I don't have a problem with. I figure as long as we both are having fun then its alright, right?
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mark2000 wrote:
Honestly I have a twin and ya we do it so why not. But keep hands off, let him do it.
I feel the same way. He wanted to masturbate each other which I considered but I thought it was probably better not to. I think he must be hitting puberty cause hes been a horny kid lately lol -
ppfft everybodyy's a hhorny kid XD hell, Iff I hhad the sho at grroup masturbattion RN, I''d prolly accept lol although I prefer alone without books or pics or vids XD just pure imagination and lust lol it actually keeps me satisfied until the next night lol but back to the ssubject, II agree with mark. Go ahead, keep it classy, but keep those hands off of eachother lol it's considerable and probably fun, but sexual activity is always fun, so regardless, it's wrong. Lett him do it, and also, make sure you don't leave anything in his mind he'll regret later XD I'm so heartless that I don't even feel guilty after masturbating anymore lol but that probably implies I'm not doing it properly XDI am the true Don, and as one, you know my life as a life worth inquiring about :cool:
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good good XD and palease lol me and my cousin, when we first figured how to jerk, used to have jerk contests XD the person who cums the most in one day wins lol he usually won, but that's because he did 8-10 a day, he had a closed door for privacy while I was livin with my grandmother, so he had the advantage, but I still broke about 7-9 a day XD believe me, everybody, when they first figure it out, is a horny kid lol. curiosity is inspired by that XD notice how ppl who don't masturbate are so freakin clueless? that's because the curiosity hasnt spawned yetI am the true Don, and as one, you know my life as a life worth inquiring about :cool:
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I've done it, my older brother kinda taught me. Not like actually touching and stuff, but I was asking him stuff, and we ended up doing it together.
It actually felt really cool, was a bonding thing for us I think.
I'm sure our younger brother will to when he ready, think it's actually kind of common -
I was rather shocked when my older bro asked me once if I masturbate already. To me it's a little too private, to masterbate with another boy. However, to talk about is no problem .... if it isn't a permanent topic.
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if he doesn't know how to do it, then he doesn't need to do it. To show him and do it with him is fucking disgusting and I'm sure that falls under sexual abuse.
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