How did you get born if he was gay?

There are many news of dads, which eventually no longer bear to hide and have their coming outs.

Also, it Is n't like that gay people can't breed children or so.

The only thing is, especially the kids of these dads suffer from those outtings, because they've to get along with seemingly a very different person of Dad.

Is this for real?

dont think about it.

well then you should ***** him

you should say to him: pappa what do you like - banana or squash

Some people have switched their choice of sexuality even after fathering or mothering their kids. I don't know much about sexuality, but it can be fluid, meaning, the person becomes attracted to the character of the other and not their gender. Our looks change, our personality changes (sometimes in day) our likes and dislikes change, so everything about the human nature is fluid - so why in the world should our sexuality not be fluid?

True sexuality is the same throughout life. It's curiosity that changes, or the person that changes which could have been your father at some point. Personally speaking, I didn't admit to myself that I was bisexual until I was in my early teens, by which time I had a child. Doesn't mean I wasn't gay up until that point; just that I wasn't aware of it. Now, I know for certain I am lesbian and feel comfortable with it. However, your father may have been struggling with his sexuality for a very long time, so I think it would be really nice and cool of you if you could find a quiet moment to talk to him.

I don't think people are really able to choose the characteristic of their sexuality nor tthey can change it.

Whether it's congenital aquired, or both at the same time, one is what one is for a lifetime.


The only thing you can do is to repress your own sexuality. But who does this is probably all life long a very, very poor being.

If he is gay, I think you should talk to him about it and tell him how you truly feel about it. Then again, try not to put pressure on him since he kept it hidden (seemingly) all this time. He still may be embarrassed or scared, but be supportive!

I think it would be embarrassing to talk about the suspicions ... Wait until he himself will tell you if he wants.