Hi Mike, welcome to Teen Hut.

I know your situation well; I'm a mother of a just-become-13 year old daughter who really fancied a guy, and he fancied her, and his parents dispapproved just like I did. You see, parents are probably only being protective of their kids just like I was being protective of Nikky, and she didn't like my attitude, but tough. If you can't past the parents of the girl that you fancy, that's life.

Undeniably there was sexual attraction. Yep, as raw as that and I've seen it all before just like the parents of the guy fancying her.

Options. You could email her, or you could present yourself to her parents and that means making a good impression by dressing up to look smart and promising them you will be honourable in your intentions to their daughter, and go from there.

I maintained dislike for the guy who fancied Nikky only because I knew he was a lazy-arsed dope smoker, and he already knew us well, and I suspected only wanted to get into her pants and the lifestyle Nikky enjoys, so it was still a No.

Life's hard, isn't it? Move on, find some other girl. Plenty o'fish in the sea.

I wonder why that is? Why would any decent parent wish to harm their child? 'Kill' you? Come on, pull the other one.

You haven't told us enough. Most parents would allow their sons to enjoy friendship with girls, so why on earth your parents are being so difficult I have no idea.

Like to tell us more about yourself? Thereare two sides to every coin and your side isn't adding up much.

If parents are following her everywhere then its really hard. I don't know what to say really. Maybe try to convince your parents and if they get then tell them to talk to hers?

My impression is his parents are not the type to negotiate with.