I have two brothers, younger 12 years old and older 21 years old.I have 17. I love them both equally and I know that they love each other, but they always fight. younger is very cheeky and spoiled and always cost the problem, and older try
to be a fatherly figure in his life (dad left us when I was about 8 years old) .TBH my mom never had authority over us, especially over little brother. man, I even more listening my big brother than her, sometimes.
so this weekend she went to take care of our grandma in other city, she does not feel good, and left us in older brother charge
as soon as she left kid began to cause problems. He demanded that Saturday night is going to a party at a friend's, but older brother isnt allowed that. but when we all went to bed he sneaked out, took brother's car (he know to drive) and left. he didn't even got to his friends house and police stopped him asking him for his documents. when they called us older brother was livid with anger. Of course as soon as we got home a quarrel broke out,and at the end older brother even wanted to spank the kid, for the first time. I somehow stepped between them and stopped him. older brother was enraged at me because I am defending him. and then went to his room and threatened that the next time he will really get a good spanking. This has so far been the biggest fight, kid go too far this time really and I don't know did I acted well, because I stopped my big brother. maybe he is right, maybe a little spanking can be only thing that would work, and would stopped my little brother to acting like that again. he could have a car crash !
whether,the next time to let my older brother to punish him as he wants?
sorry for long post.
to be a fatherly figure in his life (dad left us when I was about 8 years old) .TBH my mom never had authority over us, especially over little brother. man, I even more listening my big brother than her, sometimes.
so this weekend she went to take care of our grandma in other city, she does not feel good, and left us in older brother charge
as soon as she left kid began to cause problems. He demanded that Saturday night is going to a party at a friend's, but older brother isnt allowed that. but when we all went to bed he sneaked out, took brother's car (he know to drive) and left. he didn't even got to his friends house and police stopped him asking him for his documents. when they called us older brother was livid with anger. Of course as soon as we got home a quarrel broke out,and at the end older brother even wanted to spank the kid, for the first time. I somehow stepped between them and stopped him. older brother was enraged at me because I am defending him. and then went to his room and threatened that the next time he will really get a good spanking. This has so far been the biggest fight, kid go too far this time really and I don't know did I acted well, because I stopped my big brother. maybe he is right, maybe a little spanking can be only thing that would work, and would stopped my little brother to acting like that again. he could have a car crash !
whether,the next time to let my older brother to punish him as he wants?
sorry for long post.