In my opinion money should never come in middle of friendship / anything else really
I don't come from a rich background (struggling with bills, single parent mother, a lot of stress and we can't afford to buy anything extra (sometimes we eat leftover food whatever we can find in order to feed ourselves)
But anyway, i have friends who put money before everything, whether it'll be about going outside clubbing, eating, anything really. I find this really ridiculous. They always say "Umm.. i don't think i have money" or "i need to check my money situation" even if they know that they can easily afford to spend it (not too much of course)
What makes it even more ridiculous in my eyes is that they have parents who spoil them more or less, whether it'll be 20-30 dollars daily money or a lot more of monthly money.
I always show up and hang out with my friends, spend money to have a good time. It doesn't matter whether i'm low on money i try to get it somewhere just because i want to enjoy youth and time with my friends.
In the end i always pay my bills and i dont owe anyone.
I know that its a good and clever thing to save money but if you think about it, the memories you make in your 'early years' (in this case early 20s) stay with you forever.
Should money go before everything? In my opinion that is a bad sign in a person.
I don't come from a rich background (struggling with bills, single parent mother, a lot of stress and we can't afford to buy anything extra (sometimes we eat leftover food whatever we can find in order to feed ourselves)
But anyway, i have friends who put money before everything, whether it'll be about going outside clubbing, eating, anything really. I find this really ridiculous. They always say "Umm.. i don't think i have money" or "i need to check my money situation" even if they know that they can easily afford to spend it (not too much of course)
What makes it even more ridiculous in my eyes is that they have parents who spoil them more or less, whether it'll be 20-30 dollars daily money or a lot more of monthly money.
I always show up and hang out with my friends, spend money to have a good time. It doesn't matter whether i'm low on money i try to get it somewhere just because i want to enjoy youth and time with my friends.
In the end i always pay my bills and i dont owe anyone.
I know that its a good and clever thing to save money but if you think about it, the memories you make in your 'early years' (in this case early 20s) stay with you forever.
Should money go before everything? In my opinion that is a bad sign in a person.