Hi,
So me and my Boyfriend have been dating now for around 4 months, he is a wonderful wonderful guy and I really do feel like the luckiest girl being with him because he makes me so very happy.
However, I am a workaholic, always have been and probably always will be, and having just done my A level exams we thought we would be provided with more free time to spend with each other having both done our revision. But it seems that both of us, mainly me, are still fairly busy (e.g I'm visiting family and going to Uni open days).
I really enjoy spending time with him and try desperately to make time to spend with him but he is getting increasingly frustrated when I say that I can't stay for as long an amount of time as he would like.
I've tried explaining that my life is always busy and I can't help it and that I've not organised all of this to avoid him, but I just think he simply doesn't believe me! He's always saying how we don't see each other enough even though we've seen eachother frequently over the last week, and I'm feeling under increasing pressure to always be there but still balance relationship duties with the rest of my social life without feeling guilty.
I just don't know how to move forward and I really don't want the relationship to end because he really is an amazing partner, I'm just stuck for what to do.
Should I go out of my way to make time for him? Or is he just being too needy?
Any response would be greatly appreciated,
Thank you x
So me and my Boyfriend have been dating now for around 4 months, he is a wonderful wonderful guy and I really do feel like the luckiest girl being with him because he makes me so very happy.
However, I am a workaholic, always have been and probably always will be, and having just done my A level exams we thought we would be provided with more free time to spend with each other having both done our revision. But it seems that both of us, mainly me, are still fairly busy (e.g I'm visiting family and going to Uni open days).
I really enjoy spending time with him and try desperately to make time to spend with him but he is getting increasingly frustrated when I say that I can't stay for as long an amount of time as he would like.
I've tried explaining that my life is always busy and I can't help it and that I've not organised all of this to avoid him, but I just think he simply doesn't believe me! He's always saying how we don't see each other enough even though we've seen eachother frequently over the last week, and I'm feeling under increasing pressure to always be there but still balance relationship duties with the rest of my social life without feeling guilty.
I just don't know how to move forward and I really don't want the relationship to end because he really is an amazing partner, I'm just stuck for what to do.
Should I go out of my way to make time for him? Or is he just being too needy?
Any response would be greatly appreciated,
Thank you x