My brother's girlfriend is in love with me

    • My brother's girlfriend is in love with me

      Here’s my problem. My brother (54) met this girl on a foreign dating site and also bought a trip to one of their matchmaking tours too. That wasn’t really a problem for me. I mean it’s not something I would do but it’s not like i’m against it. I understand that the guy’s lonely and i’ve been trying to set him up with some of my colleagues for years but none of them really worked out with him. But again, that’s not the issue. So this girl. At first she was fine. Our mother liked her and so did our sisters. But the thing is... She told me about last month that she likes me more than my brother. They’ve only been together for maybe 6 months too. I don’t know what to think. I mean, I like her but I don’t think it’s enough to the point to betray my brother because I know he’d be devastated. So I tried to stop her efforts but she’s just so persistent. Should I tell my brother? Or what? I’m torn.