hello im jessica im 16 and ive been seeing a guy for a few days now. after our first date we had sex and he told me he hated to use condoms and that he would pull out but he says its really hard to. we’ve had sex 4 times and he hasn’t pulled out. is it really hard for guys to pull out?
is it really hard for guys to pull out?
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Not as hard as an unplanned pregnancy. And I wouldn't count on him supporting you, if that happened. He doesn't respect you. You could cut him off until he wears a condom. Or you could go on the pill. Personally though I would let him go, he clearly doesn't care enough about you to make sure you don't get pregnant. And with looks like yours you could easily get safe sex with any guy you wanted.
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And thats kinda stupid and silly thinking of guys like this. Let's just look at it pragmatically.
It is very easily detectable today who the biological father of a child is.
Therefore, whether a guy uses comdeomes out of respect for the girl with whom he has sex, or not ... who doesn't prevented is imho one of the stupidest creatures in the world.
These guys just don't have a brain. Girls simoly should avoid them.
On the other hand, girls are too responsible for not getting pregnant and for avoiding getting venereal diseases by preventing it. Every girl should make it very clear to a guy who doesn't want to use condoms that sex will not happen if the guy doesn't use a condom. -
the guy you're having sex with is just being disrespectful.
after a while with the same girl i can get better at pulling out but if she's not on birth control and wanting it then it doesn't change the feeling THAT much to wear a condom.
tell him to wrap it or move on -
lol million times easier than bringing up a child.
it could be a problem if he comes really quick, is that the case?A little bit of nice, a little bit of naughty.
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It doesn't really matter if a guy can control himself after he gets into it. If he knows he can't control himself (or doesn't want to), he shouldn't lie to you about it. If it happened once, maybe the guy thought he could pull out but was wrong. But it happened four times! This guy obviously doesn't respect you, so get rid of him. You're a pretty girl, I'm sure you can find plenty of other guys who will have sex with you.
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dexter68 wrote:
lol million times easier than bringing up a child.
it could be a problem if he comes really quick, is that the case?
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jessica_pup wrote:
dexter68 wrote:
lol million times easier than bringing up a child.
it could be a problem if he comes really quick, is that the case?
A little bit of nice, a little bit of naughty.
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jessica_pup wrote:
dexter68 wrote:
lol million times easier than bringing up a child.
it could be a problem if he comes really quick, is that the case?
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it dose.feel really good when going to cum but he has plenty of time to pull out if he wants to if he doesn't care then he will do what he has last 4 times ruin your life with a baby leave him !!!
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it feels so good to cum while still inside of a girl but it's really not that hard to pull out. If you can't pull out in time to not shoot it inside of her then you need to be wearing a condom as a safety net. Hell that's what they're for.
I hope he stopped doing this, started wearing a condom, or you went and got yourself a better partner -
not hard to ... but I never pull out ... I love cumming deep inside and feeling her pussy clench around my cock...most of the time they on contraceptive and if we scared the morning after pill
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was told by a Dr that some sperms may be released prior to the guy actually cumming, so pulling out isnt always safe anyway, I hate using Condoms but if the girl wants me to then of course i would use one, christ thats just showing respect for her surely, And if you dont respect the girl, then leave her the fuck alone, go home, and have a wank.
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no it not hard to pull out. I prefer to cum in her pussy but if she want me to pull out I do
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It's hard to pull out it's better to use condoms, or a pill if you don't want a child but you know there is no risk of diesease.
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I think how hard it is to pull out depends on how close you are. Once you're really close, instinct takes over. On the other hand if you're not really close then one of you will probably need to give some hand stimulation to finish.
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To me this is just about respect. Either you respect the girl you’re with or you don’t. You don’t surprise someone by cumming inside her if you respect her. It isn’t hard to pull out.
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darmcc wrote:
was told by a Dr that some sperms may be released prior to the guy actually cumming, so pulling out isnt always safe anyway, I hate using Condoms but if the girl wants me to then of course i would use one, christ thats just showing respect for her surely, And if you dont respect the girl, then leave her the fuck alone, go home, and have a wank.
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Boys make it seem like it’s hard to lol
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