I have grown being a pleaser and always gave in to my parents wishes and demands lately I have been feeling tired of trying to please everyone (literally am 18 now) I just don't want to meet everyone's expectations anymore
The problem is
I had very long hair as a child and always been kinda tomboyish so my mum had me cut them to a long bob (which is the current length) and lately I have been having these very strong urges to crop them short to the Korean style bowl cut, obviously my parents and (shockingly) my friends are opposed to the Idea. I can't make them understand that I want to break away from the old pleaser me and start making decisions for myself
The question is should I go for it please help
The problem is
I had very long hair as a child and always been kinda tomboyish so my mum had me cut them to a long bob (which is the current length) and lately I have been having these very strong urges to crop them short to the Korean style bowl cut, obviously my parents and (shockingly) my friends are opposed to the Idea. I can't make them understand that I want to break away from the old pleaser me and start making decisions for myself
The question is should I go for it please help