How To Differentiate Between Lust And Love

    • How To Differentiate Between Lust And Love

      Sometimes it can be a bit trying to separate the feelings of lust with those of love and contrariwise.
      While you routinely lust for a person you are in love with, you don't necessarily love a person that you have lust for. It is especially difficult for a teenager to distinguish the difference between lust and love due to the fact that the mass media likes to package sex and love as one thing which can therefore confuse teens who are inexperienced to the game.
      The people who tend to fall into a relationship that is built on lust tend to put their desires ahead of those of their partner. This selfishness that exists in the relationship can cause many problems. Not only that, but a lustful relationship tends to have a lot of jealously involved. On the other hand, relationships revolving around love tend to have partners involved who care about each others emotions and a mindfulness. Honesty and respect come into play as well. The fact is what could be better than coming home to someone and letting them in to your darkest secrets, fears and desires. Remember lust does also play a role in love!
      Now that you have a better idea of the difference between lust and love, why don't you go through the check list below. If you agree with at least four of the statements below, then it's very probably that you are in love.
      * The most obvious thing that might key you in on a relationship that is built on love would be that your partner has said 'I love you'
      * Your partner makes you feel special - much more so than anyone else can possibly do
      * You never feel more at peace than when in the presence of your partner
      * You do not feel the need to be fake when you are with your significant other - you can show them your real goofy self!
      * While sex can be a part of the relationship, your partner never pressures you into feeling that it's something you have to do
      * You miss your partner after being away from them for a while