I love the honest answers till now. But, after an especially awful heartbreak, i have come to realise that love is also the space of intense vulnerability and a place where i don't usually fully realize the red flags that the other person is presenting. I looked up books on this and in the intentions section of this book on Cognitive Psychology, it says that a lot of signs, signals and actions during a phase of love is directed by the unconscious drivers. It makes me want to be more wary with the next time i fall in love coz i think that is invariable.