Erotic stories Vs porn

    • Erotic stories Vs porn

      hey first time creating a post and not sure if I should since I am an older guy, but I had a random thought that might help some people on here.

      Does anyone read erotic stories to help them or only watch porn since it is so easy to gain access to these days?
      I ask this as when I was perhaps 13 and had not long discovered the joys of masturbation I found a magazine of my mums that had some stories in there that has me turned on more then I knew possible at the time. Since then I have developed a love for a well written story when in the mood
    • i agree with you erotic stories are extremely hot depending on the language they use. if it's extremely cheesy cliched and over the top then it's a bit of a turn off and more of a joke lmao but if it's really creative and sensual and just intense it's definitely amazing because it gives you the best visual imagery for you tonl interpret when you're getting off.

      In a similar way I really love phone sex because it provides that same intensity but it also adds the sexiness of their quivering whispery voice.
    • I will sometimes read the stories just for the tease and build up knowing that I won't do anything about it at the time which leads to more satisfaction later. The stories have definitely help me with dealing with a few of my desires and to know and understand that people have them and also showed me that I didn't know that I had.

      I had tried sexting and while it can be hot, actual phone sex is very much as you said. A combination of your imagination and hearing your partners pleasure which is an added sensory stimulation.

      I have come to learn that sometimes just clicking on a story that I don't know what it will be about has opened my eyes to new turn ons that I had been closed to until I had read about them. In saying this, some things are best left purely as fantasy and as either just imagination or writing and not to be lived out. A good example is some girls fantasize about being spanked, but the reality may not meet fantasy
    • Heretohelp916 wrote:

      I will sometimes read the stories just for the tease and build up knowing that I won't do anything about it at the time which leads to more satisfaction later. The stories have definitely help me with dealing with a few of my desires and to know and understand that people have them and also showed me that I didn't know that I had.

      I had tried sexting and while it can be hot, actual phone sex is very much as you said. A combination of your imagination and hearing your partners pleasure which is an added sensory stimulation.

      I have come to learn that sometimes just clicking on a story that I don't know what it will be about has opened my eyes to new turn ons that I had been closed to until I had read about them. In saying this, some things are best left purely as fantasy and as either just imagination or writing and not to be lived out. A good example is some girls fantasize about being spanked, but the reality may not meet fantasy
      totally agree with the last part about how a lot of the times they portray extremely unrealistic scenes which are pure fantasies, something which can end up being dangerous for younger ppl with less sexual experience. I had a friend who got with a girl who started touching his butt from the getgo and turns out it was because she read it in a story and she just did the same thing cuz she thought it would be equally as sexy as it was portrayed. as long as ppl understand at the end of the day it's a story and you shouldn't necessarily take tips from it in your real sex life, it's a lot of fun.