Most of my friends are my age but 1 of them is 2 years older than me so she just turned 19. Now I'll admit I'm not perfect, I smoke cigs, I have already done the drinking thing, and I have tried bud but nothing major and my friends have done it with me. Recently my oldest friend has graduated to hallucinogens and that is not my thing, I have tried to ask her to stop but she has no desire to. She brings it with her when she hangs out which I would prefer she didn't, it's not that she tries to force it on anyone but eventually I'm gonna give into curiosity and that's not something I want to do. Any help here.
What would you do?
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You're doing well, setting a limit for yourself, but your friend obviously does not respect your space too since if one druggie is among you, people usually considers that group as druggies too. You can either drop your friend or pick up the hallu.
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Tell your friend that she can do what she wants but if she wants to keep you as a friend, she needs to keep it away from you. There is nothing you can do about the fact that she is doing it, I am sure you know that we all need to learn from our own mistakes and that expecting her to stop all together for you is only going to worsen the situation.
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Ya ... ur doing gr8 bout setting a line 4 ur self .. but mmmm... She wants to do wat she desire ... so do you
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SaraloveXXX wrote:
Ya ... ur doing gr8 bout setting a line 4 ur self .. but mmmm... She wants to do wat she desire ... so do you
Yes, listen to this girl. She obviously knows what she's talkin' about.
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I think if you're strong enough there will be no problems.
What do you mean "curiosity"? You're not a child or something...
Be a strong personality!My TOP 10 hottest girls: Paris Hilton, Jessica Alba, Lindsay Lohan, Scarlett Johansson, Penelope Cruz, Angelina Jolie, Cameron Diaz, Hilary Duff, Carmen Electra, Eva Mendes :cool: -
You mentioned that you know eventually you will give in to curiosity and it's not like you can control what your friend does, it's their choice. I hate to say it, but if you don't want to do things your friends might influence you to do, then be with other friends who won't. You'll never have that problem if you are with friends who don't influence you to do things you know you could give in to. I used to hang out with friends who liked to drink a lot, like get drunk every weekend. I'm not saying anything against people who drink, but it's just not something I want to do. So I hung out with other friends and I haven't given in because the opportunity is not there. I'm still friends with them, I'm just not with them when they choose to get drunk. If they invite me to a drinking party, I decline politely. It's just trying to avoid situations where you know you can be weak.
All in all, it's great that you are making a decision by yourself about this. I wish you all the best -
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Honestly, consider what is a friend. We all have different definitions and mine may be opposite to yours, but would a friend force something upon you? Like missd said, avoid those situations if you're not one of strong will. It's the best way to handle it. -
you're on the right path by setting a limitation.
but let's face it, peer pressure really does damage. there may be a time when our peers would convince us to do something we don't want to. but if they do harm you or try to make you feel that you have to be like this or use that to be with them, then they're not much of friends, aren't they? -
things to do with drugs can really stress you ou, if your friend keeps doing that around you it's probly a good idea to stop hanging around with her
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give her the three strike rule
the first time she does it warn her
the second time let her know if she does it again then u wont be friends any longer
the third time? SHE'S OUTTA THERE!
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