2 guys. uck.

    • 2 guys. uck.

      okay so. i have a pretty sticky situation here.
      well i have a boyfriend of 4 months. and so our relationship
      well it hasnt exactly been the best. we'd always get in
      HUGE fights and he'd say all this mean stuff and people
      are saying stuff like oh he's mean to you and he doesn't
      treat you right...but they don't even know how we are. but
      sometimes i still find what they say true. a lot of my good
      friends have told me to break up w/ him. but not like forcing
      me too just saying that that was their opinion. but we've gotten
      pretty committed and he is soo attached to me and so
      in love w/ me. i know if we broke up he'd be DEVASTATED.
      but i'm not sure if i COMPLETELY feel the same way. yah
      i do care about him a lot but sometimes i still wanna be
      single and stuff and then there's another guy...well...this guy,
      i'm not supposed to talk to. at all. i'm FORBIDDEN. cuz my
      boyfriend just doesn't like him. and so. well. i kinda have been
      talking to this guy behind my boys back...and well he told me
      that he used to like me when i liked him and that he wants
      to go out w/ me and stuff. and we always talk about it...like
      it always comes up whenever we talk...and like i kinda like him
      too. and i want to go out with him....but i'm not sure.
      my boyfriend would kill if he knew about
      this...and i mean sometimes i think i should break up w/ him
      and other times i don't...and now its just SO hard. so i'm not
      sure what to do. :confused: please reply.
    • Re: 2 guys. uck.

      Frankly, you're too young to become a martyr. Your selfish boyfriend is just USING you. You have a full bright young life ahead of you and you choose to suffer through it, instead of enjoying it, just because somebody who does not respect you (and I doubt he loves you) will be devastated if you let go? It's nice to be idealistic but sometime we have to live with realities.

      Peace!