a temporary preference perhaps?

I think a lot of people are confused about the term "sexual preference". A sexual preference doesn't mean what sexuality you prefer, it means who you are attracted to, regardless of whether you like it or not. The preference is not a conscious decision.

in regards to homosexuality, the cause is not yet known, and obviously there is no cure right now, otherwise the lines for it would probably be longer than the ones to get a gay marriage.

I'm not so sure about that.. it would have to be done ins ecret otherwise the exgay discrimination front would be in there like a shot.. no ones sheds what they used to be entirely, biologically of psychologically so even if there was a 'cure' it couldn't possibly work...

I'm gay, I want a wedding more than I want a marriage, i think the part of a marriage that I want is the devotion that comes in the minds of people when they get married and I want that without the confines of a legal binding. I also want a kid, but I dont think i could ever trust another guy enough to have a kid with him, but i can see me and a female friend who feels the same having a kid.. wierd but id trust her way more than any man.. AND i dont want to adopt because the kid might grow up to be ugly..

I don't think you can be ex gay. :s
You're either gay or you're not.

It's probably just confusion.