okay i have a question for whoever looks here

    • okay i have a question for whoever looks here

      what do you do when your attracted to one of your friends, and you really like this person but you know they dont like you back because mainly they dont like girls?

      so first off, im confused about who i like. i havent liked a guy since the 5th grade... so yes the friend i like is a girl....i know she doesnt like me that way, but ive felt this way about her for over a year and a half now...what do i do?

      no one except a few of my friends know that i like girls, no one in my family does. but i dont know what to do....

      advice, help, anything?
    • Re: okay i have a question for whoever looks here

      if you guys are at a party or some other function where there's alot going on dance with her in a casual way like you would with any of your friends
      then kiss her and see what her reaction is
      if its a bad reaction just play it off as being caught up in the moment and apologize
      it she doesnt resist or react in a bad way ask her if you can go talk somewhere and tell her how you feel
      unless that would be too awkward for you
      i imagine it would be but thats what i would do
      only if it was at like a really good party and the atmosphere was really pumped up
    • Re: okay i have a question for whoever looks here

      first of all, does she have a bf? if she does then its not worth telling her straight out how u feel. maybe u could bring up porn in a conversation with friends, preferably the ones who know how u feel about girls, and u could ask questions like what everyone thinks of girl-girl porn and if anyones bi-curious. dont do anything ull regret cuz then it will piss u off so much for years and years.
    • Re: okay i have a question for whoever looks here

      do NOT kiss her.

      it will totally throw her off, especially since you said that she was straight.

      if you think that she will still accept you as a person if you tell her you are a lesbian, then you should tell her how you are a lesbian, and that you are attracted to her. reassure her, though, that you won't pressure her into anything/force yourself on her. however, if she's against gays and lebsian etc./bothered by it, then i don't think you should tell her anything.
    • Re: okay i have a question for whoever looks here

      she flirts with girls a lot. i mean a lot and she even says she knows she does it. and she loves people who are gay. she thinks they are way cooler than straight people because i donno thats just how she is.

      ive talked to her before about liking girls and she was like whoever youlike is fine with me babydoll. so she probably doesnt like girls but i know she doesnt not like me as a friend because i like them. but i dont know if she actually thinks i only like girls, if that makes sense.

      but im to afraid to tell her that i like her inparticular because i dont want to ruin our friendship....