Last night was the first time my bf and i have been able to see each other in over 2 weeks. we went out last night, and we got some of the umm... 'intense' physical stuff out of the way at the very begining. but after the rest of the date we ended up in my basement watching a movie. and he was being all "lets snuggle" which was adorable so we layed there snuggling for the entire time. cute right? well, at a couple of points during that snuggle session i would turn to him and kiss him. but he insisted on just snuggling. he wouldnt make out or kiss me back. he would just say "we're just snuggling tonight baby." which again, snuggling is cute and all, but i hadnt seen him in forever and he's turning me down for just kissing/makign out, but doing the more intense things that he so 'desperately needed' right then at the very start of the night is ok?!?.....

he's always had lots of female friends, but ive always trusted him about it. but theres this particular girl that im starting to worry about. they've been friends for forever, and lately they've been talking and hanging out a lot. and like on his facebook wall she'll write often, and the messages will be long and end in "love, jamie."...in the past 2 weeks, he's talked to her as much if not more than me, and he's definately hung out with her more. again, its been spring break and i didnt see him at all the entire time until last night?!?.... this on its own wouldn't be so bad if i hadnt found out today that he used to really really like this girl back before we started dating.

now all of these things just feel like ominous coincidences.....
so i'm confused. we've been dating for over a year, but little things like this that prolly wouldnt have bothered me in the past are starting to seem bad.

am i overreacting by being upset/annoyed about this?