It is perfectly natural to find people of the same gender attractive, or to have sexual thoughts about them. You could very well be straight, or just bi-curious. You have a girlfriend, so obviously you aren't completely gay. I wouldn't worry about it.

If your sexually attracted to these guys, then chances are you're bi, seeing as you've already got a girlfriend.

But if you only think they're good looking then you're probably not.

well - if you're only attracted to girls you're straight
-if you're only attracted to guys you'll be gay
-anywhere in between, you like both, you're bi

Or he could just be bi-curious, or not even that, just be growing up and having feelings for same sex as well as girls. It doesn't make him bi if he thinks boys are hot.. Boys ARE hot. xD

I think it makes you confused

Although, it could go the otherway. Guys that are super confident of there straight sexuality can admit when a guy is good-looking...even to the extremes of considering them hot.

Although the fact you have to ASK if your gay probably suggests you have sexual thoughts about them. We'll call it bi-curious...but if you start wanting me over ur gf...time to worry lol. Dunno how you could go gay after being with a girl, but still. Hope you work it out.

Riot.

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Hell no, its not weird. Just..you're better off keeping it to yourself, as it is now seen as socially awkward.

I can't say guys are hot, but I can tell if they are good looking or not. Women do the same for women.

No it doesnt. Plus you may just be bi.

Try out both sexes because your Bi-Curious!!! Also welcome to TH!

You have your whole life to decide. Just go with what feels right to you.

~Josh~

i would suggest experimenting... just because u have an attraction for the same sex.

I think you may just be bi-curious, which is perfectly normal.

like shortcake said it is normal... i must admit i do have some friends that im attracted to.. however a j/o buddy is what im doing now.. i dont think ill go further then that.