I won't deny it, I love that my parents are separated, they alwys used to fight and argue and it was for the better. My mum has now happily remarried and I live with her, but still see my Dad whenever he isn't working.
The problem is with my dad he has a bad past with girlfriends since splitting with mum. One of them tried to force us out of Dad's life and only care for her and her little monster, it only took her calling me a bitch at my 13th birthday party for Dad to realise she needed to go.
The next one made the previous look like an angel... She wanted a perfect little family, just Dad her, her 5 kids and me and my sister. No mum or our stepdad. She was rude and swore all the time which influenced my sisters language majorly but the worst part was she was coniving. She tried to get us to lie to our mother, I didn't fall for it , but my sister did, so she spent time with them and Dad while I stayed home. Then she worked on my sister lying to me and I went psycho. Somehow luckily they broke up and all was fine gradually.
That was over 2 years ago, In the present time she is back again, and Dad is not paying any attention to us, he is always on his phone to her messaging her etc. He limits it around me but he is always talking to my sister about how she is going, but my sister isn't on his side anymore. In fact my sister is completely against my dad and refuses to go over or talk to him, she has been to a psych and everything! This is my last year of high school and I don't want my Dad to miss it because of her, I care for my Dad so much and want him to be happy, but at the same time I want him to be with someone that can cope being around me and my sister and not try to separate us from our mother.
I am really concerned that I am going to lose him, but I don't know what to do, we have talked to him but nothing has happened. Should I actually accept her again or fight harder, she damaged the bond I have wiht my sister and it is still not back to what it was before, over 2 years ago I was on the verge of clinical depression because of her and I am scared this will happen again.
Does anyone know what I am going through? And I apologise for rambling, being new and all.:(
The problem is with my dad he has a bad past with girlfriends since splitting with mum. One of them tried to force us out of Dad's life and only care for her and her little monster, it only took her calling me a bitch at my 13th birthday party for Dad to realise she needed to go.
The next one made the previous look like an angel... She wanted a perfect little family, just Dad her, her 5 kids and me and my sister. No mum or our stepdad. She was rude and swore all the time which influenced my sisters language majorly but the worst part was she was coniving. She tried to get us to lie to our mother, I didn't fall for it , but my sister did, so she spent time with them and Dad while I stayed home. Then she worked on my sister lying to me and I went psycho. Somehow luckily they broke up and all was fine gradually.
That was over 2 years ago, In the present time she is back again, and Dad is not paying any attention to us, he is always on his phone to her messaging her etc. He limits it around me but he is always talking to my sister about how she is going, but my sister isn't on his side anymore. In fact my sister is completely against my dad and refuses to go over or talk to him, she has been to a psych and everything! This is my last year of high school and I don't want my Dad to miss it because of her, I care for my Dad so much and want him to be happy, but at the same time I want him to be with someone that can cope being around me and my sister and not try to separate us from our mother.
I am really concerned that I am going to lose him, but I don't know what to do, we have talked to him but nothing has happened. Should I actually accept her again or fight harder, she damaged the bond I have wiht my sister and it is still not back to what it was before, over 2 years ago I was on the verge of clinical depression because of her and I am scared this will happen again.
Does anyone know what I am going through? And I apologise for rambling, being new and all.:(
