Well, honestly I like the whole date-outside-of-your-race thing. It's good for future generations not to keep in-breeding, and it makes thngs more interesting.

Now, I think that what they are telling you though is more for the fact that they probably think that if you and whatever future wife that you have are the same race and the same religion there will be less conflict. But that conflict only happens if you let it get inbetween you.

Personally, I really like going for guys outside of my race. There are plenty guys of the same race as me that i think are hot, and plenty outside of my race that I think are hot....though it's weird that only the guys outside of my ever return the compliment.....

btw, i should say that I wouldn;t be here of not for interracial pairing. I'm a mix of native american, indian or hungarian, and english/irish as well as some other stuff that i haven't been able to track down yet. And before my mom married my dad (which she never should have), she dated quite a lot of guys outside of her race. If she hadn't married my dad, she would have married an asian guy. lol

haha writer chick.

i agree with her about the conflict only if you let it come between you. my parents say that as long as someone treats me nicely and it's someone i like, then they have no problem with it. but i know that they'd prefer if i dated someone within my race. i asked my mom why they say that, and she said she wanted someone who had the same experiences and morals.

i think parents just want someone who they can somewhat relate to so that they know what their kid is up to/how they will be treated. if the one you love has the same morals as your parents, it's easier for your parents to keep you in check, in a way.

but in the end, it's up to you who you love and who you date and who you marry.

my grand parents just say not to marry a man

lol

They're too strict.

to me inter racial dating isn't a problem, but i dated and married a man in my own race.

Has anyone read the short story The Fall of the House of Usher? I think this story portrays just how horrid the results of inbreeding and incest can be. If we only marry within our own race, we're all doomed. That said, dateing both in and outside of your race is reasonable, just don't be prejudiced either way.

my family wouldnt care and doesnt care... as long as u love that person for who they r not what they r it shouldnt matter... i only talk 2 hispanic guys and my parents are fine with it

i fink its gd 2 date/marry ppl from other races n religions coz den u learn a lot of new stuff and it shouldnt matter wot dey r, its hu dey r inside dat really counts. if u lyk a person go 4 it

xD

I'm okay with inter-racial dating. In fact, I'm caucasion, and my boyfriend is Korean.

Yeah, I'm definitely okay with it.

Lucky. Asian guys are h-o-t. lol