RedAlert wrote:

My boyfriend is in the military. He hasn't gone away yet, but I think if he did it would not change our relationship. I would never cheat on him...I would just miss him like crazy until he came home.

I am preparing myself the reality of him going away. I hope he never does, but you never know with the way things are going in Iraq.

i agree with chelsea
and also it depends on the relationship
if there is true love, feelings wont change
and i would wait for him..
even though we would have to handle with distance
who knows, maybe things turned out to be bad, but i would give it a try 4 sure

Not all true love military stories work out though.

My boyfriend is also a volunteer firefighter, and there's a guy in his department that is also in the armed forces (I'm not sure what branch). Well, he went over to Iraq a couple of months ago, and he's still there. He was married, but his wife cheated on him with a younger guy while he was over in Iraq risking his life.

How shitty is that?

I hate women who do that to their military husbands. That's pretty messed up, if you ask me.

RedAlert wrote:

Not all true love military stories work out though.

My boyfriend is also a volunteer firefighter, and there's a guy in his department that is also in the armed forces (I'm not sure what branch). Well, he went over to Iraq a couple of months ago, and he's still there. He was married, but his wife cheated on him with a younger guy while he was over in Iraq risking his life.

How shitty is that?

I hate women who do that to their military husbands. That's pretty messed up, if you ask me.

thats awful
i mean, u get married with sb if u are mature enough to realize that u want to be with this person in ur life
why cheating on him?
i think, that noone deserves to be cheated, no matter what he does,
i mean, if sb is not good enough for u, for some reason, break up with him, dont cheat him
and he was on the army too.
thats shitty. as u said.. horrible.
pretty messed up, i would agree..

I think..of it this way...

(Just keep in mind that I'm Selfish and A Bitch)

A few years in the military...just a few years of lonliness....THEN BOOM!!!!

Your rich...you got money up the ass...

I wouldn't have to worry about anything!

My boyfriend is in the Military as well.
He is in FT. Leonardwood MO right now.
He is comming back in June for a little while, then off to Germany.

It is hard, but I love him and he loves me.
So we make it work.
It's what you do when you're in a relationship.

its good that u work it out together and u love each other that much
see, if there is willing everything could happen!!

in any realationship, not just long distance ones,

YOU HAVE TO MAKE IT WORK TOGETHER...

of course, else u do nothing
theremust be willing from both sides

i would so be ther for my man if he was in the military over seas... my brother is in the army and his whore of a wife cheated on him when he was there... that is so not cool... i would have more respect for my man if he was there