Girls, Does Losing Your Virginity Hurt That Much?

the_frog · Aug 27th 2008, 4:43am

We've all heard about how a girl's first time is supposed hurt for her.

My question is, how bad?

If I was ever having sex with a virgin, the last thing I'd want is for her to be in pain.

Is it so bad that she'd have to stop?

I'd appreciate any personal feedback, and I'll try to keep this as "mature" as possible!

Thanks

theman123 · Aug 27th 2008, 5:08am

im a guy but a girl told me it just hurts for a few seconds then the pain subsides and it starts to feel good

Becci.08 · Aug 27th 2008, 4:18pm

It hurt me quite a bit. And we had to stop,, but i was dry.. If ur gonna shagg a virgin either get her really wet or use lube to ease the pain.

onyxeyes · Aug 27th 2008, 7:04pm

I was wet my first time, but it was still one of the most painful experiences of my life. We had to stop several times and it took an hour before we could go without stopping, even then it still hurt tremendously.

tinkerbell · Aug 27th 2008, 8:30pm

yes it does hurt, but just use lube, and dont be worried about it hurting it might make it worse

Lov3abl3_Sh@nnon · Aug 27th 2008, 8:55pm

yes it does hurt. when i first lost mine it hurt alot. but just take it slow, be patient and use lube

Hitman · Aug 27th 2008, 10:33pm

be patient me ass just slam that girl lol joke dont do it she will cut off ur junk

but with my last gf i was goin at it and we stoped a few times cause i was hurtin her really bad she said she also said she was trying not to cry

Kilbykins · Aug 27th 2008, 11:53pm

It didn't hurt much for me. Why does everyone say it hurts soooo much

onyxeyes · Aug 27th 2008, 11:57pm

Kilbykins wrote:

It didn't hurt much for me. Why does everyone say it hurts soooo much

Because for some people it does. Just because it didn't for you doesn't mean it's going to be the same for everyone else. Besides, the size of the penis of the guy you lost your virginity to also is a factor in the equation.

Personally for me, sex still hurts and I lost my virginity over a year ago.

the_frog · Aug 28th 2008, 4:33am

Thanks for all the answers guys/gals!

But from a guys point of view, what should we do? Should we be the ones to ask if she wants to stop, or should the girl be the one to bring it up?

That question is open to everyone, guys and girls

MME1122 · Aug 28th 2008, 5:18am

TheCosmicFrog wrote:

Thanks for all the answers guys/gals!

But from a guys point of view, what should we do? Should we be the ones to ask if she wants to stop, or should the girl be the one to bring it up?

That question is open to everyone, guys and girls

I like this thread...a lot...being a guy...its very helpful

KnuckleHead · Aug 28th 2008, 5:20am

+1 on when to stop.

I've heard that giving the girl tylenol or asprin relaxes the muscles and it doesn't hurt as much? and getting her drunk is supposed to help aswell but the drinking part is out of the question for my gf.

Denz · Aug 28th 2008, 5:46am

Depends if she masturbates or not, and just the person.
Everyone is different

Keava · Aug 29th 2008, 3:44am

For me it didn't at all.The first time I used a toy it wasn't full on painful,but it took a while to get used to and relax and enjoy it.I think the girl should bring it up.

Mr. ty · Aug 29th 2008, 6:55am

Girls for sure. It would be awkward every minute "Are you alright? Should we stop?".

the_frog · Aug 30th 2008, 3:41am

Mr. ty wrote:

Girls for sure. It would be awkward every minute "Are you alright? Should we stop?".

Yeah, that's what I thought.

Mr. ty · Aug 30th 2008, 5:51am

TheCosmicFrog wrote:

Yeah, that's what I thought.

hehe.

sweetliljac13 · Sep 13th 2008, 10:45am

It didn't hurt me at all, BUT, my hymen wasn't intact because of being involved with sports throughout my childhood.

Laura · Sep 13th 2008, 10:55am

didnt hurt me either but i broke my hymen prior to it

Pressure · Sep 13th 2008, 11:02am

I fisted my vagina daily with a 10litre bottle but it still hurt me.

/pity party

:o

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