Some people lie.
And it's not something you'd want.
So, don't stress.

In my opinion it isn't that common and that when people come out after years and say things, they crediblity should be questioned.

lol how can u say "everyone"?
i dont think everyone except u has been abused
at least i havent
i think there are ppl who have been but not everyone
i dont know if it really common though

It's very common. Some people lie or exaggerate, but it is extremely common nonetheless.

I haven't been abused, but I know several people who have been. They are all... a little off kilter. It is definitely a bad cycle.

sometimes it depends one where u live...but no its not that common. It does happen, but i doubt that u will ever be..don't worry about it..

Um, maybe it's all a little relative, but... to me at least it seems far too common for comfort. "Not that common" doesn't come close...

Sexual abuse is common in our society. Like godless_musician said, "It seems far too common for comfort." I would have to agree.

I have never been sexually abused, nor do I know of anyone personally that has, but you see cases of it all the time on talk shows and whatnot. It's very sad and scary to me.

Honestly, if you're that deranged to lie about being a part of such a serious issue, then you need help. Faking sexual abuse is not a good way to cry for attention.

i like your avatar vallelly haha.

yeah alot of abuse happens everyday, just be thankful you havn't been exposed to that cuz i know i am.

i think it depends on what you consider sexual abuse...cause it is kind of common in the lower degree. As in I see controlling boyfriends pressuring their girlfriends into doing things all the time. And that's happened to me too. But it's not like he was holding a gun to my head or anything nearly that extreme, it's more like he manipulated me into thinking i should do what he said and if i didnt there was something wrong with me and i was worthless. so i guess it was really more emotional blackmail then sexual abuse but it was connected to sex...so i think that's....maybe not common, but more common than I'd like. and more extreme case of sexual abuse like molestation or rape and such i think are way less common but still, more than enough. and yea i agree people lie about it to get attention but why would you lie on an internet forum thing, whats the point of lying to people you dont even know? and i also thinking lying about it at all is kind of low because it's not something you'd want to happen to you, so why make it up, and it's also disrespectful to the people that DO go through it for real.

Depends on what you see as sexual abuse.

Yeah it's really common, it's a shame too cos I've seen that kind of abuse really mess people up. Anyone who sexually abuses someone deserves a bullet through the head.

Erg, I don't think that's much better, Brokehalo7. It's kind of like after VA tech when a radio station had callers say what horrible things they would do to the shooter... some said they would kill him, dip his hands in acid etc... which it's horrible in itself to put on the radio, in my opinion, after an incident like that.

hmmm,
i dont know, i have one friend that has been kind of sexually abused but it seems to me that ppl who have actually been abused are too ashamed and scared to admit it and dont just spread it around.
i also doubt that someone could do it to get attention
@at first place, u get pitty not attention
@and secondly, gosh! sb must be really desperate to claim such a thing in order to have friends :/:/

If it isn't consensual, it's abusive.

My number fantasy is to be tied up and raped.
Having no control is super hott.
yumm, bondage.

Occasionally I have submissive fantasies but the idea of totally losing control is disgusting to me. In fact, in my fantasies being submissive somehow makes me feel more powerful. However "being on the bottom" is one thing and abuse is another. I have never been abused or raped and I'm damned glad; my friends who have are mentally scarred because of it.

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