This is really just a stupid little issue...but its gotten to be a big deal, and its just...gotten out of hand.
My girlfriend is friends with a girl at our school...for the sake of the thread, the girl's name will be Erica. I'm friends with her too, mostly because my girlfriend and a lot of my friends are. Aside from little things like what I'm about to explain I have no problems with her.
I think in general shes extremely controlling and just doesn't take no for answer. She likes to always boss people around and always be right. I don't mean that in a nasty kind of way where she just bullies people, its hard to explain. But thats her personality.
It started as a joke, about who 'owned' my girlfriend and who loved her more, and who she liked more and things like that. And after a few months it just started to get out of hand...if you ask me. It bothers me...a lot. After a while it gets really annoying. My girlfriend doesn't think much of it and shes too nice to say anything anyway.
I really haven't done much because my girlfriend wants us to be friends. Every so often I just say something like...its getting old, now quit it I'm serious. But thats about it. I'm like this close to completely exploding on her though.
Is it stupid to be bothered by this? I mean, I can't say 2 words to the girl without her starting up the same fucking argument. And if I'm just walking with my girlfriend she runs over and bitchs.
Theres one more part to all this...which is really the main problem I guess. Shes constantly touching my girlfriend...like all the time. Just all over her. If she was a guy I would've punched her in the face by now. Multiple times. Is there a reason for this? All she does is grab her and drag her by the arm, and they don't even talk without her holding her...basically, like I do. Except shes worse than I can be. Is it wrong to be bothered by this? How would you feel if just some random person was constantly hanging off your boyfriend or girlfriend, and you couldn't even talk to them? It doesn't matter whether its a boy or a girl, theres no reason...
There are other issues that relate to this, but instead of making one big confusing thread I'm guna start a different one later. So thanks for reading, and thanks for any replies.
My girlfriend is friends with a girl at our school...for the sake of the thread, the girl's name will be Erica. I'm friends with her too, mostly because my girlfriend and a lot of my friends are. Aside from little things like what I'm about to explain I have no problems with her.
I think in general shes extremely controlling and just doesn't take no for answer. She likes to always boss people around and always be right. I don't mean that in a nasty kind of way where she just bullies people, its hard to explain. But thats her personality.
It started as a joke, about who 'owned' my girlfriend and who loved her more, and who she liked more and things like that. And after a few months it just started to get out of hand...if you ask me. It bothers me...a lot. After a while it gets really annoying. My girlfriend doesn't think much of it and shes too nice to say anything anyway.
I really haven't done much because my girlfriend wants us to be friends. Every so often I just say something like...its getting old, now quit it I'm serious. But thats about it. I'm like this close to completely exploding on her though.
Is it stupid to be bothered by this? I mean, I can't say 2 words to the girl without her starting up the same fucking argument. And if I'm just walking with my girlfriend she runs over and bitchs.
Theres one more part to all this...which is really the main problem I guess. Shes constantly touching my girlfriend...like all the time. Just all over her. If she was a guy I would've punched her in the face by now. Multiple times. Is there a reason for this? All she does is grab her and drag her by the arm, and they don't even talk without her holding her...basically, like I do. Except shes worse than I can be. Is it wrong to be bothered by this? How would you feel if just some random person was constantly hanging off your boyfriend or girlfriend, and you couldn't even talk to them? It doesn't matter whether its a boy or a girl, theres no reason...
There are other issues that relate to this, but instead of making one big confusing thread I'm guna start a different one later. So thanks for reading, and thanks for any replies.