Giving a girl pleasure

  • Giving a girl pleasure

    :eek: okay, Please for heaven sake do not laugh or flame me for making this topic...:(

    I have gone to many sites that expalin HOW to pleasure a girl. I still do not know how this can be accomplished! The layout on a girl makes no sence to me! It seems like girls have it soooo much easier than guys! on a guy theres just one part!

    On a girl? Theres like 7 parts!! I heard.. If you dont do it correctly, it wont work!:eek: I am a virgin here and I am starting to freak myself out... Always saying.. "IM GONNA MESS UP!!!" I try to be possitive but when I dont even know wtf to do when the time comes its really stressful! Also very embaressing.:confused: I have alot of knowledge about sex I am not stupid... I get the concept and everything but... Guys... I dont know how to finger a girl...:confused: I know what it is!!! But I dont know how and im afraid when the time comes... Im going to make a fool of myself! I dont know how to eat a girl out, I dont know any of the possitions?!?!:eek: What do you do?! I know what you do but I dont know "HOW" you do it! :( And I guess it's really freaking me out. And guys.. We are all adults here... I was scared making this topic because I always get flamed, but I'm asking for help..:confused: How do I do all of this stuff?!

    Thanks guys... Girls, feel free to answer as well...
    thank you all

  • Re: Giving a girl pleasure

    Step 1: Make a fist with your favored hand.
    Step 2: Extend your middle and index fingers.
    Step 3: Insert in to favored female opening.
    Step 4: Move fingers as if you are summoning someone (come hither).

    [optional]
    Step 5: Lower head on to pubic region and gently tickle the clitoris with your tongue.


    Dandaitalianman is not to be held responsible for any possible non-pleasureable moments. Not a member of FDIC.

  • Re: Giving a girl pleasure

    :rolleyes: Yeahhh that is just like a rule book. Not really too good haha. It is pretty simple actually girls always have different turn on spots like some like having their necks kissed and some just like being tickled. I know it sounds strange but you will know what to do when the time comes. And as for positions you can make your own up lol it doesn't matter how you do it really just see which ones you find most pleasurable when it does happen. I mean the obvious ones are the guy on top or the girl on top. And fingering is just plain and simple insert your fingers and move them in and out. It sounds so complicated when some people explain it but it's not. And i wouldn't worry my boyfriend was a virgin until he met me and he was scared shitless but i just did all the work at first and gave him the rough idea :) You will find it quite easy when it comes to it trust me :p good luck.

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    About the making a fool of your self, there isnt really a worry, she will tell you what you did wrong and 9/10 times let you have another go. One thing to know about fingering, make sure she has her legs open enough, otherwise it hurts for her.

    Just a few tips. And also stimulate her clit with your thumb, works pretty well.

    Making out with her nipples, and kissing her all over, and then going back to making out works.

    #1 Rule: One step forward 2 steps back

    so start with making out then just go back to kissing, go to kissing her all over, go back to just kissing her lips, go to kissing her boobs, go back to making out, go to kissing closer to her "area", then slowly go back to boobs, then making out..

    This builds up her sexual tension, and after a bit she will really want it.

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    Well just try to find out the erogenous zones of a girl, and try to touch em ;D, you'll do good. It doesn't hurt to ask her what he likes.

    There's a video I found that shows how to master the female orgasm. It's insane. It's crazy.

    But I guess you don't have to worry about advance crap right now, like I said, just touch her where it feels good (hint: where do you like to get touched? it's almost the exact same with girls. only diff is they dont have boy units. they have the other pretty set.) so yeah. good luck.

    Google doesn't hurt. And watch a lot of porn. You'll learn sex that way.

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    There's this awesome movie...called '9 songs.' Look it up :)
    Romantic yet eroctic...I think you'll be able to pick up general things from it...as for preferances...leave it to individuals.
    [RIGHT]Girl, put your records on, tell me your favourite song..You go ahead, let your hair down
    Sapphire and faded jeans, I hope you get your dreams, just go ahead, let your hair down.
    [/RIGHT]

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  • Re: Giving a girl pleasure

    okay ask her what she wants

    EVERY GIRL IS DIFFERENT

    they like different things so what one girls likes might hurt another


    so get her to guide you so you what she likes and if she is a virgin take things slow experiment learn from your own experience

    if your to nervous to ask a girl what she like and she wants

    then maybe shes not the right gilr to be having sex with??
    Drink tea and ponder ....
    its the way forward :wink: :D

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    Women are very nifty. For you see, a vagina holds not 7 parts, but 18, and you must stimulate every single one for about 10 mins or so to achieve an orgasm.

    So, yeah, work on that.
    She kept lookin' at her watch (Doesn't matter; had sex)
    But I cried the whole time (Doesn't matter; had sex)
    I think she might've been a racist (Doesn't matter; had sex)
    She put a bag on my head (Still counts)

  • Re: Giving a girl pleasure

    Well when you have a girlfriend settled and your ready for second base and forward, while you are kissing move your hands up and down from her chest to her inner thy ontop of clothes.. and then make your way underneath.. carressing her breasts and bite her neck or ear. Its comes natrual if your in the mood :P eventually you'll both be nakid and if you need tips on sex positions type "Sex positions" in google :P

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    Its not too hard...but its different from a guy, a guy can just look at his hot girlfriend and start with a blowjob or watever...girls are kinda different.
    The more relaxed she is the better it'll be. Just kiss her and slowly pull her clothes off, don't move too fast. Make her want it and touch her everywhere. This changes with every girl though, like everything.
    Once shes really turned on theres a few things you can do...do what you want and ask her what she wants. Maybe she likes it fast..or maybe she lieks it slow. Maybe she wants just her clit rubbed...or maybe your fingers all the way up there. Just see what she likes. For your first couple times I'd suggest just using your fingers...
    You can kiss her and lick her nipples and touch her all over through all of that...it depends on what she likes.

    The key is just to make sure you're both relaxed and not nervous. Make sure its private and stuff. Make sure you ask her what she likes, cuz thats the only way you'll learn how to do what she wants. The first time isn't going to be good for either of you, or the first time she does something for you most likely. So don't freak out too much, she'll definately understand and not complain...unless you screw up bigtime. And try not to get caught :cool: