This past Saturday, I was talking to my friend Jay. I thought I could tell him anything, so I told him about this guy I knew. I met him when I went camping, and he help me down and fingered me. He didn't listen when I told him to stop. I though Jay believed me, and he didn't seem mad or disgusted or anything. But a few minutes later he said he had to go and hung up. I called him the next morning, and he didn't answer. I called him that night, and he told me all kinds of mean stuff. I hung up on him and he didn't call me back.

On Monday, me and my friends were hanging out by the art hall. Jay asked me if I remembered how the guy had fingered me and how I had liked it and would have had sex with him if I could. This other guy, Andrew, (who I like) goes, "Did it hurt?" I started slapping Jay and yelling at him. He just laughed the whole time. In seventh hour, Andrew kept saying that he didn't respect me anymore. I wanted to tell him the truth, but I was scared he wouldn't believe me, so I just ignored him.

Today, Jay wouldn't shut up about it. My best friend, Kyle, and my other friend Sage were holding me by my legs. Jay goes, "Call TJ. He fingered and she wanted it." And then Sage (who was being nice to me before that) started being mean and saying all kinds of stuff about me. I just found out that Jay was trying to make me hate him on purpose because he hated me and he also told these other, really messy, girls.

So, I have two questions. Should I confront Jay? And two, should I tell Andrew what really happened? If I should, how exactly would I go about doing it?