well first of all you gotta know, get into your head that you cant be back with him, then later you should start flirting, hanging out other guyss

The best thing to do is make a new bf

It really takes time. Time heals all wounds. You can't really make yourself get over someone. When your heart is willing to move on then it will. Don't rush it. Understand that it's over and that it is problaby best that way.

the above person really rox.........:cool:

Awh. Me? If so, thank you.

can u advice me also????
Even i m in love wid a grl...its now bout 7 yrs...v r gud frends nd she even knows bout my feelings.....but she does not value my feelins.....wat shud i do?

There is no purpose of loving someone that doesn't value your feelings. In the end you are just going to be strung along and that isn't fun. She will be out with someone else while you are in love with her. Now, you can't just get over her in one day. But it takes time. You should tell her that you feel like she doesn't value your feelings. Maybe she is scared, nervous, afraid of love and shit. Make her feel comfortable. And if she doesn't care then move on to someone else that will value your feelings and love you back.

..................as a sweet stranger

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Good luck, hun.

I'llBeTheDeathOfYou. wrote:

There is no purpose of loving someone that doesn't value your feelings. In the end you are just going to be strung along and that isn't fun. She will be out with someone else while you are in love with her. Now, you can't just get over her in one day. But it takes time. You should tell her that you feel like she doesn't value your feelings. Maybe she is scared, nervous, afraid of love and shit. Make her feel comfortable. And if she doesn't care then move on to someone else that will value your feelings and love you back.

Bloody SeXy!

You seriously RoCk :wink:

No you rock.

Hmm yeah but 1 less than you. :wink:

hi can someone help me- im new 2 this, and dont no how 2 start a new thread. um ive been with this lad on and off 4 a year- he says he likes me and then a couple of weeks later it all goes silent. then about a month back we became very serious, and have had sex. hes been so nice 2 me etc. but the last 2 days, hes gone very quiet however when we do talk hes still reasonably nice. i suppose it doesnt help that its exam time, but i really dont no what 2 do. should i just leave him 2 get on with it?? should i say something 2 him??am i being paranoid??please help.

Your situation sounds strange. But maybe he is confused. He might be getting mixed feelings. Personally, I don't know. Sit him down and talk to him. Talking to each other is the main factor in a relationship.

well it taked time to get over someone you love and you can love them w// everything you have...and he will never know exactly how much you love him...avoid things that let you been extremly close to him...put away your memories don't throw them away and never regret what you did because at one point it was exaclty what you wanted..:wink:

Why don't you try to forget him and move on to other guys. Think of the bad things about him and focus on the good things on other guys.