ive finally fiigured out how 2 start a new thread. but erm ive been on and off with this lad 4 a about a year- we'll b great 2gether and then he'll suddenly go quiet and that'll b the end of that. anyway in bout the last month we finally got 2gether, and we've had sex, and hes been so nice and supportive 2 me, but we're not going out. but in these past 2 days, hes suddenly gone all quiet, when we do talk hes still relatively nice, but i have 2 b the 1 that initiates the conversation. i feel so hurt if he doesnt want me anymore. i cant help but think i should have definatly waited until i had a relationship like my best friend has with her boyfriend- pure love. do i say something 2 him??? do i leave him 2 it?? am i just being paranoid?? please help i would appreciate it a lot.

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