Haha little heavy for a 12 year old. But I agree.. I didn't think of it that way. There really isn't anything wrong with it i suppose. It's like having more than one friend :)
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Loving two person at the same time is absoluttely normal and not unnatural or wrong. Kopst has sopme qualities Alex doesn't and same goes for Alex. Which means you like both of them at the same time. It is perfectly natural (polygamy and polyandry was popular in th middle ages for this reason and today, multiple affairs.)
If we try to be politically correct and ignore biology and psychology, we can say loving two person at the same time is wrong.....but that doesn't help. So my suggestion to you is Ira, just feel secure that you love them both and don't feel guilty, whatever your heart feels is right, don't get swayed by the righteous people, they think randomly and not researched facts.
Remember, love is not like money, the more you give, the richer you get ;) So go ahead and love them both and enjoy yourself without guilt. Monogamy is unnatural and that's a scientific fact proved by research. Those who tell monogamy is human nature are idiots who speak from their bottoms.
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Loving two person at the same time is absoluttely normal and not unnatural or wrong. Kopst has sopme qualities Alex doesn't and same goes for Alex. Which means you like both of them at the same time. It is perfectly natural (polygamy and polyandry was popular in th middle ages for this reason and today, multiple affairs.)
If we try to be politically correct and ignore biology and psychology, we can say loving two person at the same time is wrong.....but that doesn't help. So my suggestion to you is Ira, just feel secure that you love them both and don't feel guilty, whatever your heart feels is right, don't get swayed by the righteous people, they think randomly and not researched facts.
Remember, love is not like money, the more you give, the richer you get ;) So go ahead and love them both and enjoy yourself without guilt. Monogamy is unnatural and that's a scientific fact proved by research. Those who tell monogamy is human nature are idiots who speak from their bottoms.
Sorry for the long boring post ;)
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was that directed towards me
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tht was for ira...cuz its ira thread...n ira is stuck b/w 2 guys...
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no actually i meant the last part abt the people talking shit
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I didn't direct to anyone in particular. I dislike people who put moral codes of what is right and what is wrong. It is nature which guides human beings and not some old fashioned social ideas.
@ Dork
About what is heavy and what is light for a 12 year old, this topic needed a heavey reply. I couldn't have replied as if talking to a barbie doll. This a mistake most of us make, underestimate a child and fail to understand them... even for parents. ;)
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dood i think u rok u hav the best answers around here
A barbie doll? That's a little harsh. I wasn't implying that she was stupid or naive because she certainly is not. I think you know what I meant. It was long winded and a slightly analytical for a topic about school-yard crushed. But was helpful none-the-less.
yeah......Man i'm even more confused than before.....but I think I know what I'm going to do. I'm gonna talk to Alex face to face. I cant take it anymore.