Ladies first??

    • Ladies first??

      I have been thinking bout this one for a while, and no Im not high, and yes there will be typos.

      Obviously we all know that men are supposed to let women go infront of them, like through doors and what not. How did that originate? i dunno...

      Ok lets consider this: from the dawn of time, men picked their mates through body style(figure)...in a sense that they would 'check a woman out'...see how wide her ass is, how big her breasts are, etc. And what do men do when walk behind women (most anyway)...look at their ass, unless its a ...scary..old...cross-dresser or whatnot....then running away is to follow(although I do not know whether or not there were crossdresser during the dawn of time). So what happens when a man lets a woman go in front of him? Exactly, he checks out her ass. And I think that this was molded into a man being a gentleman when he lets the woman go in front...while he gets to check out her ass, like a final "make sure" before you sit down at the table. I am not exactly trying to start any type of a "conspiracy theory" here against us guys......but this made me wonder....

      I mean think about it.....wouldn't it be more "gentleman" like if a guy went IN FRONT of the girl to "see if there is any danger" i mean, he says "go ahead" she says thank you and the next thing you know, she feel through the floor....
      The King of Mind-Fuck
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      That's an interesting theory. My agenda is often to check out ass.

      I would say it's just culture though, to be honest. In Western countries anyway.

      In Japan, when I first moved there, I was holding doors open for women and getting very dodgy looks. As if I was some kind of perv (imagine that). And when it came to people holding the doors open for me (which is polite custom), they slammed them in my face. It was odd and I never got used to it. When I came back to England, I found a Japanese girlfriend and she said the same thing happened to her when she went back to Japan, no one observes any of the things we see as common courtesies. Like for instance, in England, if you bumb into someone, you apologize. In Japan, it's just part of their busy, hectic, everyday lives.

      How this culture developed, I'd say it takes root in women being seen as people men should take care of back in the day.

      I know experts also say things like women like hulky men, because deep down in their genes, it tells them hulky men have a better chance of A) getting them pregnant, and continuing their line. And B) Protecting them from other males. So who knows why we do it? Could be lots of reasons.
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      Japan? Lucky bastard...I wanna go there....

      And HMMM...that is actually interesting.

      As for hulky men, yeah. However what I also found out, that that on average a woman would want a big guy to get her pregnant BUT a "nice" guy to raise her child....
      The whole psychology behind the male-female interaction is interesting to me. It is especially funny when you see someone do certain something, and then you know why he or she did it.
      The King of Mind-Fuck
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      It's as awesome as people say. I worked for a bit over there, but I got plenty of time to travel the country too. I did go mainly for the women, but the country is like a dream land too. The cities are bright, colourful and alive, and the countryside is spectacular.

      And yeah, us hulky men always get used just for sex.

      It's awesome.
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      I always go by the saying, "Ladies first, except on stairs/esculators, and restaurants."

      Stairs: simply put, guys perv. So you never let a lady go first on the stairs because you will no doubt look up her skirt.

      Restaurant: because the male generally makes the reservation, if there is any. And the male can then say secret things like, "I'm proposing tonight, can you do something special blahblahblah" or something.

      That's generally the rules here in Belgium too. I personally have no idea how it all started or why, but I almost always let females first, or let them have my seat etc. It's being polite and it makes them feel good about themselves, which I love. I just love seeing a woman or girl say thank you, and smile at me because I gave them my chair in the tram. It means I made their day, and then they in turn, made mine.
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      DeamonD wrote:

      $4000 Canadian for flight there and back +2 weeks at a 4 1/2 star hotel...
      so.........tempting....


      *Does quick currency conversion*

      2221 GBP.

      That's not too bad. My flights alone cost me 1,000 GBP. :S I had accommodation sorted though.

      If it's a package, you should get someone who picks you up at the airport and takes you to your hotel. And from your hotel to the airport when it's time to leave.

      It's always a chick.

      And she's always hot.
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      shelb angs wrote:

      I usually open the door or car door on my own, unless my boyfriend beats me to it. Those types of things don't form my opinion of a guy. I have a friend who's a real brat about it and won't talk to a guy unless he does EVERYTHING for her. /<


      LOL Seriously?
      I would LOVE to meet her. I have the most fun proving people who are full of them selves wrong.
      The King of Mind-Fuck