Boys: What if you got a girl pregnant; Would you..

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      I'm going to be honest.


      I'd ask for her to get an abortion. If she wouldn't, then I'd tell her I'm sorry, but I can't be the baby's daddy. I have far too much I want to do in life, and I'm not going to let a kid get in the way of that. Sure, it's my mistake, and I offered to fix that; but I can't be a father to kid right now. Hell, I don't know if I'd be a good father in 10 years, more or less now.

      That said, I would definitely give her money to raise the kid.
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      Hi :)
      I would stay with her, no doubt about it. There are plenty of guys out there who would order her to have an abortion, but I'm not like that - no one should be. No person should be left alone in that state.
      Once, my ex thought she was, and I asked her what she wanted to do about it and ensured her that if she was, I would stay with her all the wa through it.
      I think that's just me though. See, I've always wanted a future with that girl who I love more than anything and kids and a nice little house...can't have that any more, but it's what I wanted, so it might just be me, but meh.
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      If I fell pregnant I would ask the guy to marry me and raise the child with me. Even if he was a stranger I had a one night stand with (assuming I could still contact him).

      I believe every child sould grow up with a family. And I would put up with having an unhappy marriage to give my child a solid family home.

      If he refused to marry me I would give the baby up for adoption. I do not believe in abortion, but I couldn't raise the child properly by myself. I'd prefer to have the pregnancy then give my baby to a good loving family, even though it would brake my heart and kill me to do it.

      In the future I may feel different and have a child on my own if the father left me. But at 16 it wouldn't be fair on me or the baby.
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      charmaine wrote:

      If I fell pregnant I would ask the guy to marry me and raise the child with me. Even if he was a stranger I had a one night stand with (assuming I could still contact him).

      I believe every child sould grow up with a family. And I would put up with having an unhappy marriage to give my child a solid family home.


      Oh really? You think a child with two unhappily married parents who don't know what the hell they're doing will be a "happy" one?

      If he refused to marry me I would give the baby up for adoption.


      Smart.

      I do not believe in abortion,


      I assure you, it exists.


      but I couldn't raise the child properly by myself. I'd prefer to have the pregnancy then give my baby to a good loving family, even though it would brake my heart and kill me to do it.


      Why would you break yourself over a blob of DNA? That doesn't make any sense to me.

      In the future I may feel different and have a child on my own if the father left me. But at 16 it wouldn't be fair on me or the baby.


      I'm also 16. Allowing a baby to be born to 16 year old parent(s) is "not fair to the baby".
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