Have you ever fallen for you best friend"same sex", if yes what did you do about it?
"Fallen" for your best friend?
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Yeah, i have. It took me a while to realize but once i knew, i told him. He was ok with it and we're still best mates now...
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Yeah, I'm in the same predicament as we speak. It is rather difficult, since I don't know if he reciprocates my feelings or not. I also don't know if he'll still be my friend after (if) I tell him.
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I'm in this situation...I'm bi and so is my best friend...but currently she has a boyfriend...and has no clue about my feelings...very difficult situation...hard to handle...~*~
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Actually my best friend fell for me...............[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
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Clear midnight what did you do about it? how did you handle it? intreresting to know...
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yeah im interested to hear what and how you felt when your best friend fell for you. i fell for mine a while back and things went well for a while but was never really sure how she felt.
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Yep, it was a long time ago, however. We were just talking about it yesterday, actually. Turns out she liked me at the time, too, lol.
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Its such a shame i mean if they like us back why don't they just say so, we have one life and we should live and experience every moment. I wish my friend felt the same way but for now i don't know yet. Can't find the guts to tell her.
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i have kind of fallen for my best friend who doesnt live close no more. we've kissed and that but we've never discussed our feelings for each other. i would like to tell her but i'm not going to.... unless we get drunk haha.[CENTER][SIZE=2]“I promise that this will be the last time you’ll see me. I won’t come back. I won’t put you through anything like this again. You can go on with your life without any more interference from me. It will be as if I’d never existed.”[/SIZE][/CENTER]
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Ahhh drunk yeah i agree? I feel the same way , probably because i can blame it on that if things don't go well . lol Im a chicken shit.
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Seems to be a popular occurrence lol...I realized mine way too late. I was leaving in a week, and it suddenly hit me one day...I was in love (not just a crush) with my best friend of 6 years. We both knew we were both bi, but she was engaged (and is currently married, and she's due any day now). But all I can think of is, what if I'd realized it earlier? What if I hadn't suppressed it? Because that last week, when I was trying to spend as much time as possible with her, I would swear she felt the same way, even if she didn't say so. So, if any of ya'll ever fall for your best friend, and there's no obstacles aside from being nervous about being rejected? Go for it. You have nothing to lose. If they're your friend, they will still be your friend no matter what, and it might become even better.
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It just scares the hell out of me when I'll tell my best friend that I'm in love with her. Haha! It would be so awkward. But no, I'm not in love... well, I guess not yet.[CENTER][SIZE=3]"I know what you're doing. You're reading my signature."
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i fell for my best friends 5 years ago, we had a 4 year relationship, it was beautiful, we're still best friends.[CENTER][SIZE=4][/SIZE][SIZE=2]Can you imagine what I would do if I could do all I can?[/SIZE] [/CENTER]
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Bluetigress, that is exactly what I think of. I would hate to think (what if?) for the rest of my life. It drives me nuts. Do I want to tell her? Do I want to leave it? what will I regret more? Since I've been talking on this forum I'm getting closer to telling her. Lets see
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My advice for you, cuapkige, is you should go tell her right now. "What if" she feels the same way for you, too? You'll never know unless you really do something about it.[CENTER][SIZE=3]"I know what you're doing. You're reading my signature."
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Clear_Midnight wrote:
Actually my best friend fell for me...............
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Ohhh do I know that. I wish I could just say it. I'm trying to figure out what it is that makes me be affraid. And its the fact of, I don't want to lose her as the friend she is now. I mean she has handled everything i ve told her, what I am, she is still so close, but maybe by doing this she might get to her limits and move away. And maybe my timing telling her will be wrong but if I told her another time she would react a different way. Its just very very "mind spinning" :confused:
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You're at least lucky that you have the time to figure it out. By the time I realized what I'd been suppressing, I was leaving in a week, and she was engaged.
I really doubt that you'll push past her limits, especially if there wasn't any awkwardness when you told her about yourself. Hopefully, you'll just feel a "right" moment when you can tell her. I don't know your friend, but I would just wait until ya'll are alone, when one of you could leave if she doesn't take it well (unlikely), or if she wants to think about it. -
Thankfully there isn't a big problem for me not to tell her, and i know for a long time that I like her, but its the fact im affraid of change, bad change. But thats why I opened this thread. To hear other people experiences of friends being told they are liked by their friend (as those poped up) or telling a friend you like them.I like listening to stories to get ideas myself! :wink:
Thank you guys that have answered till now!!
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