We talked about it and in a few months we are just going to stop trying to prevent pregnancy, and just let it happen. We feel that we are ready and we will probably discuss it with our parents and do a bit more research before making the final decision.
We are gonna do it.
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Good luck, make sure your completely ready. Having a child is a lifelong commitment. You can't decide in 2 years that you don't want to take care of him/her anymore.
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That's wonderful knowing you're trying for a child. I wish you much happiness, you and your partner.
Sometimes the best memories people make, are new ones.
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Wow, congratulations mate..
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kids suck.[SIZE=3]Once I spoke the language of the flowers. . . .
How did it go?
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Arsonist wrote:
We talked about it and in a few months we are just going to stop trying to prevent pregnancy, and just let it happen. We feel that we are ready and we will probably discuss it with our parents and do a bit more research before making the final decision.
I really think this is the best way to have a baby - just let it happen.
I've seen a lot of people 'try' for a baby time and time again without luck - if it just happens then it was the right time -
good luck. Make sure you have those $200,000 you'll be needing to raise him. That's without the other 150k you'll need for college. Plus any emergencies that might occur.
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no no, you got it all wrong
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I dont think It is anyones Place to say go for it or dont.
But a few things.
1.Are you commited to this other person (if they are female) would you stick by her no matter how hard it gets?? and visa versa Is this lad the right person for you?
2.Are you ready to Have a children?
3. would you be able to look after this child and give him what he needs. (would it be better to wait a couple years when collage is finished and you have a job or income?
4.Can you cope with late nights,early wakups, crying, random awakening?
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man if you really want it go for it.Even if i am only 16 and 1/2 my dream is to have a child(boy) named ben(benjamin) or james even if i am half greek half italian.If things are ok and my grades as well i will be going to university in England and hopefully if will live there for the rest of my life!
So go for it man i am with you! -
just keep him away from pedophiles
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Well that's just great news I'm really happy for you. It's a lot of work but I have never met one person that said regretted it so don't listen to all the negative people good luck.
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mekster wrote:
I dont think It is anyones Place to say go for it or dont.
But a few things.
1.Are you commited to this other person (if they are female) would you stick by her no matter how hard it gets?? and visa versa Is this lad the right person for you?
2.Are you ready to Have a children?
3. would you be able to look after this child and give him what he needs. (would it be better to wait a couple years when collage is finished and you have a job or income?
4.Can you cope with late nights,early wakups, crying, random awakening?
If its all right for you then go for it
1. I am married to him.
2. Yes, I am ready to have a child, or a few children.
3. I am out of college, I have a job and two steady means of income.
4. I work in a field that requires that of me now, it would be no change. We are actively trying to get pregnant. -
go for it!!!:D:p:love1:
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