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jasonperson · Jul 1st 2009, 4:48am

ok, so i told her on facebook that i like her
but of course, she didn't like me back, haha xD

This is how it went.
me: hey, sup =P
her: nothing lol
me: can you go on skype? ( iwanted to tell her on skype -.-)
her: Sorry, i have to go to bed at 11pm every day -_- (it was 10:55pm)
me: haha ,okay. understand xD
her: My dad made me T_T.
me: btw.. erm.. can i tell you something?
her: huh? what?
me: I like you. I know it might feel weird but i like you >_> I know you dont like me back so, can we stay friends?

As soon as i said that, she logged off facebook. So i was like (dang, too much shock >_> crap!) and 4min later.

her: Ha ha, i already figured it out!
me: what?
her: i already knew you like me
me: oh dang.. when did figure it out?
her: When you said "should tell someone who I like?"

me: wow.. HOW .
her: I figured it out that time. I don't know

her: yea, always good to have friends

me: yup -.- I liked you since. blah blah blah.
her: oh... I see.
her: why do you like me?
me: you are kind. and you are also beautiful? ha ha!
her: Wow, thanks

her: I guess i will be nice as well ;P
me: Although, you don't like back, only as a friend but its good to know the truth, then holding it back. So I am fine

her: I absolutely understand
her: It's also good for me to have a friend. btw, you're really nic.kind I mean.

We talked about random things and... she even passed her bed time LOL 11:20pm

her: ok, i gotta go now
Her: im on another lap top. (that made the reason why she logged off right after i said that LOL)
me: can you go on skype tmw?
her: probably fine for me. I am kinda tired cause i went to my friend's house today T_T
me: so.. err. go online msn tmw or something so i can msg you to go on skype. :)

me: please. not offline so it wil ltake forever for me to figure it out
her: ha ha, sure

me: im sorry about the weirdness today but you figured out before so its okay rihgt? Long as we are good friends.
her: yup. don't worry about it

me: night
her: night

then she logged off.

Well. now that she doesn't like me back.
Only thing i can say is, sucks to be me LOL
I tried. I tried hard =P
I was brave enough to ask her out.

i was brave enough to tell her i like her.
so idk any more LOL

Although, i stil llike her so i am stil lgonna try to like me back but that's later in the future LOL
Until i find someone i like, i still like her

So guys. I have few questions.
1. Idk why she switched computers when i said i like her.
2. What should i do now?
3. What do you think of her now -.-?

Cowpiepk · Jul 1st 2009, 4:52am

Well you should of never said "I know you don't like me, etc.." that right there dropped your confidence in yourself.. trust me I know I've done it :p. Oh well at least you got it off your chest right :rolleyes:

armyforthebroken · Jul 1st 2009, 4:55am

First of all, good job! I know it's hard expressing how you feel about someone, but you did it - so be proud

The only answers I can come up with is:

1. Maybe she wanted to talk to you alone and in private, because you guys were talking about some personal business. I know that if I was talking to someone that just told me they liked me, I would probably talk to them in private and away from anyone seeing my business.
2. Just take it slow. Be her friend and even if she isn't reciprocating your feelings, you can still have that friendship with her

3. I can't really answer this question, because I don't know what I think of her. I don't know who she is or where she's coming from, but I'm sure she's a good person like you say she is.

jasonperson · Jul 1st 2009, 6:17am

but.. how did she figure it out -.-
i didnt even say anything about liking her until today.

stephaknee · Jul 1st 2009, 6:18am

The way you act around her maybe?

I Promise · Jul 1st 2009, 9:29am

It's a shame you said that she doesn't like you back, because you sort of told her she doesn't like you back. Which is slightly odd. I know you probably was hoping she might have said 'I do like you' and she sort of did, but you told her not to like you

I think you need to work on your self confidence a little, because you can't stay negative like that about yourself.

1. Idk why she switched computers when i said i like her.
She might have been sitting with her laptop of netbook in a social area with her family, or may have been somewhere where they could see the screen, and didn't want to talk about something personal around them. So, she signed off and went to her room, and finished the conversation off there. Or, she might have been using the pc or laptop the family use, and she didn't want the conversation history saving on it, so she switched to her own, so nobody could snoop
2. What should i do now?
There's not much you can do now. I would suggest, and it's only a suggestion, you could write her a email or letter, and say you're sorry if you sprung that conversation on her the other night, and you just had to get it off your chest how you felt about her. Say you have never met another girl like her, someone who's so kind, thoughtful and someone who makes you tummy buzz every time you see her or even think of her. And if she ever changes her mind about how she feels about you, you will be there and waiting, and it would be an amazing opportunity to be seen out in public on a date with her
3. What do you think of her now -.-?
I have no thoughts on her at all. I think she seems a really nice person, and someone who is going to be open and honest with you.

I hope the above makes sense :)

jasonperson · Jul 1st 2009, 3:38pm

I Promise wrote:

It's a shame you said that she doesn't like you back, because you sort of told her she doesn't like you back. Which is slightly odd. I know you probably was hoping she might have said 'I do like you' and she sort of did, but you told her not to like you I think you need to work on your self confidence a little, because you can't stay negative like that about yourself.
I hope the above makes sense :)

wait.. why is it odd that i told her she doesn't like me back -.-
cause she probably wouldn't like me back >_>

kurtis49 · Jul 1st 2009, 3:55pm

Uhh because you put that thought into her head before she had a chance to think about it

I Promise · Jul 1st 2009, 4:00pm

Exactly. From a psychological point of view, you'd have been better just asking her on a date than telling her she doesn't like you in that way, even before you ask her out

kurtis49 wrote:

Uhh because you put that thought into her head before she had a chance to think about it

jasonperson · Jul 1st 2009, 4:03pm

I Promise wrote:

Exactly. From a psychological point of view, you'd have been better just asking her on a date than telling her she doesn't like you in that way, even before you ask her out

so i screwed up? lol

jasonperson · Jul 1st 2009, 6:14pm

i just want to know if i screwed up or not -.-
Did i like lose the chance of her sayign "i like you back?"

VoDKaMarine · Jul 1st 2009, 6:16pm

Yes, you kinda screwed up.

jasonperson · Jul 1st 2009, 6:20pm

VoDKaMarine wrote:

Yes, you kinda screwed up.

lol but in what way thouhg?
if i didnt say that line, what would she say?

SwimTrunks · Jul 1st 2009, 6:26pm

I wouldnt say you screwed up... you just had a bumpy start :p
And who cares why she changed computers! your talking to her right? The biggest suggestion you can take from this is that you need to show confidence, plain and simple

Seems like she likes you, she stayed up past when she was supposed to right?

jasonperson · Jul 1st 2009, 6:37pm

SwimTrunks wrote:

I wouldnt say you screwed up... you just had a bumpy start :p
And who cares why she changed computers! your talking to her right? The biggest suggestion you can take from this is that you need to show confidence, plain and simple Seems like she likes you, she stayed up past when she was supposed to right?

wait.. how can you say taht she likes me when she said she doesn't? (not as beyond friends anyways) >_>?

SwimTrunks · Jul 1st 2009, 7:07pm

where did she say she didnt like you? You were the one who told her that? Unless there is some background info that we are unaware of?

jasonperson · Jul 1st 2009, 7:14pm

SwimTrunks wrote:

where did she say she didnt like you? You were the one who told her that? Unless there is some background info that we are unaware of?

There is no background info.
She didn't say "I like you back" and she was like "i understand"
which means, she doesn't like me back?
If she did, she would of been like "i like you too"

SwimTrunks · Jul 1st 2009, 7:45pm

I beg to differ? Her understanding you, and her liking you are two different things. Your jumping to conclusions, and assuming too much. Maybe she does like you, but instead of telling you over a computer, would prefer something else? Ask her out on a date... what do you have to lose here?

Cowpiepk · Jul 1st 2009, 9:10pm

Here's how you screwed up imho. You basically said "I know you don't like me etc.." but lets stay friends. ok so you disqualified yourself from the get go and you also made her win by being her friend. So she had nothing to lose.. I would of just said "I like you.." and left it at that :p.

Edit: Yeah just ask her on a date.. she never came out and said I don't like you.

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jasonperson · Jul 1st 2009, 9:54pm

Cowpiepk wrote:

Here's how you screwed up imho. You basically said "I know you don't like me etc.." but lets stay friends. ok so you disqualified yourself from the get go and you also made her win by being her friend. So she had nothing to lose.. I would of just said "I like you.." and left it at that :p.

Edit: Yeah just ask her on a date.. she never came out and said I don't like you.

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wait. if i ask her out on a date, wouldn't she go say no? Because she doesn't like me >_> remmeber?

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