Do you feel uncomfortable being naked at home in your bedroom with him, or just at the beach? If it's just at the beach, that's probably because it's a public place. :wink:

friends and boyfriends/girlfriends aren't the same, you can't really compare them in that way. I've seen my girlfriend countless times naked and now we're really comfortable with each other. Of course it took time.. the first time seeing each other naked can be weird/embarrassing for some people that feel self conscious but generally most couples get over it fairly quickly, you just get used to it

It just kinda comes I guess. I've never been keen on the way I look, but at the end of the day, my boyfriend loves me for who I am and the way I am. It felt a little weird the first time I was naked with him, after a bit I was used to it and think nothing of it.

Some of its just self confidence, some of its experience, some of its age.

Some people are happy being seen naked and its not a problem for them. After you'd been naked around people you stop thinking about it as much. And as you get older you become less self conscious.

just do it every thing must be first time.

once you get to know someone in a mature relationship, you explore their body during sex, so being naked together isn't a problem, if your young, its all to do with your confidence, and if that isnt there, it'll grow with your relationship.

Try snuggling under a blanket watching a movie at first.

never had a problem being naked, rugby showers are communal and when i was younger and in cadets, showers there were communal aswell, if you can be naked around a bunch of hairy men you can be naked around naked girls np.


with a girlfriend though you get completely comfortable being naked around them, after a while it gets to the point where she might be doing her make up in the bathroom and you just walk in and have a pee and neither of you thinks twice about it, or ill be in the shower and she will come use the toilet. no body cares, you dont sit there staring at her on the toilet, lol

I think that's one of the best things about a relationship being able to relax in yourself and not worry when your with them, when you find the right person and you're at the right point in your relationship then that's not a problem in the slightest even if you are self conscious.

Exactly-you don't want to rush things

When you're really in love with someone it's pretty much something you both really wanna see. I mean, if you're having sex it's no fun if you're clothed. It's just a lot more sensual and sweet in my opinion. You'll get used to it when you reach that age; it's also a maturity thing.

Just work on building comfort first-that's what's important

Honestly, being nakes in front of your boyfriend/girlfriend is just something that comes without much question. When you know how much they love you, it's not much of a problem. I know I'm someone that is kinda scared of nudity too, but with my boyfriend, I have no problem..Why? Because I just love him.

It's all about being comfortable with your significant other. You know the one you love won't judge your body poorly; in fact, he/she will probably love it because it's yours. You just have to find that person you can totally relax around.

It becomes one of the most naturally wonderful and sensual feelings in the world being naked with the one you are in love with.

Not easy to start with I agree but as time goes by and you grow closer together and become more relaxed in each others company all your inhibitions, fears and hangups disappear.

With time your own confidence will grow and you will look back and wonder what you were so worried about.

I suppose you just get conditioned by experience.

i dont know but i just feel comfortable