Please read this and help me as much as you can..:confused:
I've been with the same guy on and off for 2 years. Within the first four months we both cheated on eachother, and I'm over that but I wasn't, I was always bringing it back up until about a year ago. Although I didn't/don't trust him, I still kind of want to be with him but there have been so many rumors of him being with other girls at school (we go to different schools) and I confronted him about it but he denied it.. I was talking to some girl on the computer and she said he had been asking her if he could do a threesome with her and one of her friends (she lives like 2 hours away) and he admitted doing that so he said he would stop talking to her but he didn't. I checked his e-mail and there were messages from her so I replied as if I were him to see what she would say and she said that he gave her hickys she even SENT PICTURES! she even said they went back to her place. I didn't know what to believe so I called him and told him what had been going on and he called her a psycho and said he never did that.. I'm really stuck on it because I don't know what is true. Up until recently they haven't been talking, as far as I know, but now she is sending him lovey things over myyearbook and it is bugging me to all craziness. He says he isn't sending anything back and that she hasn't sent any messages or anything.. but I don't believe him..
This isn't the only problem we have had. He has a major problem with lying. He tried to lie to me about a concert he was going to with his sister because he thought I would be upset. (It was a concert I was going to take him to but he said no, and they are like my favorite bands). I also went to his house early in the morning so we could hang out but we were sleeping. His brother called right when we woke up and he lied about me being there because his brother doesn't like me, so his brother was coming over to pick him up to go do "yard work" when they were really going tubbing. He made me leave even though I was there in the first place.
He says he loves me in the most sincere believable tone and I kind of want to believe it.. but I am I just wasting my time with a liar and a cheater??
I really love him..:cries:
I've been with the same guy on and off for 2 years. Within the first four months we both cheated on eachother, and I'm over that but I wasn't, I was always bringing it back up until about a year ago. Although I didn't/don't trust him, I still kind of want to be with him but there have been so many rumors of him being with other girls at school (we go to different schools) and I confronted him about it but he denied it.. I was talking to some girl on the computer and she said he had been asking her if he could do a threesome with her and one of her friends (she lives like 2 hours away) and he admitted doing that so he said he would stop talking to her but he didn't. I checked his e-mail and there were messages from her so I replied as if I were him to see what she would say and she said that he gave her hickys she even SENT PICTURES! she even said they went back to her place. I didn't know what to believe so I called him and told him what had been going on and he called her a psycho and said he never did that.. I'm really stuck on it because I don't know what is true. Up until recently they haven't been talking, as far as I know, but now she is sending him lovey things over myyearbook and it is bugging me to all craziness. He says he isn't sending anything back and that she hasn't sent any messages or anything.. but I don't believe him..
This isn't the only problem we have had. He has a major problem with lying. He tried to lie to me about a concert he was going to with his sister because he thought I would be upset. (It was a concert I was going to take him to but he said no, and they are like my favorite bands). I also went to his house early in the morning so we could hang out but we were sleeping. His brother called right when we woke up and he lied about me being there because his brother doesn't like me, so his brother was coming over to pick him up to go do "yard work" when they were really going tubbing. He made me leave even though I was there in the first place.
He says he loves me in the most sincere believable tone and I kind of want to believe it.. but I am I just wasting my time with a liar and a cheater??
I really love him..:cries: