Hey guys! Is this true!?

    • Hey guys! Is this true!?

      You guys want what you can't have and once you have it you don't want it anymore? Refering to sex of course.

      And if you love the girl will you stay with her even if she gives it to you?

      Last question,
      If you're with a girl and she's given it to you before but she doesn't want to anymore and cuts you off, will you go cheat on her?

      Answer all three please..:wink:
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      once_in_a_lifetime_luv wrote:

      You guys want what you can't have and once you have it you don't want it anymore? Refering to sex of course.

      And if you love the girl will you stay with her even if she gives it to you?

      Last question,
      If you're with a girl and she's given it to you before but she doesn't want to anymore and cuts you off, will you go cheat on her?

      Answer all three please..:wink:


      ur name is confuzzling, now to answering questions

      no, yes, no
      fuck.
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      letard wrote:

      no,yes,no too.

      but the chase is all the fun. once guys have it they kinda get lazy so u gota spice it up or make them still put the effort in.


      Ok thanks. but how can I spice it up and make him put in more effort? We've been together for 2 years, recently engaged. (We've broke up a couple times though(before the engagement of course).
      :eek:
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      once_in_a_lifetime_luv wrote:

      You guys want what you can't have and once you have it you don't want it anymore? Refering to sex of course.

      And if you love the girl will you stay with her even if she gives it to you?

      Last question,
      If you're with a girl and she's given it to you before but she doesn't want to anymore and cuts you off, will you go cheat on her?

      Answer all three please..:wink:


      Yes - No limbo. It really depends, though im straying from thoughts of my gf giving me bj... >< thats disgusting to get her to do that

      Yes

      No.

      If I'm despo for it ill tell her before i do anything
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      eccentric. reach wrote:

      Yes - No limbo. It really depends, though im straying from thoughts of my gf giving me bj... >< thats disgusting to get her to do that

      Yes

      No.

      If I'm despo for it ill tell her before i do anything


      Hmm.. Ok. Usually guys love blowjobs.. If the girl is good at it anyway, I've been told I'm good.
      I have a tongue ring too. :-)
      Thanks for answering.

      But don't you think if you had sex with your girl you'd want it even more because it's so good?
      Just a random thought
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      once_in_a_lifetime_luv wrote:

      Hmm.. Ok. Usually guys love blowjobs.. If the girl is good at it anyway, I've been told I'm good.
      I have a tongue ring too. :-)
      Thanks for answering.

      But don't you think if you had sex with your girl you'd want it even more because it's so good?
      Just a random thought



      We have already tried it. and no, from watching porn seeing all these types of girls doing so much stupid things in their lives.. concepts of bj and sex all the time turn me on, but also turn me away.

      After you have sex, yeah youd want it more, till it gets boring (everything eventually gets boring) so you gotta keep changing it, or keeping it to something special so you can look forward to it and it can be much more rewarding.
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      eccentric. reach wrote:

      We have already tried it. and no, from watching porn seeing all these types of girls doing so much stupid things in their lives.. concepts of bj and sex all the time turn me on, but also turn me away.

      After you have sex, yeah youd want it more, till it gets boring (everything eventually gets boring) so you gotta keep changing it, or keeping it to something special so you can look forward to it and it can be much more rewarding.


      I hate giving blow jobs. :-)
      I'm kind of getting bored with the sex in my relationship, he doesn't seem like he is though.. How can a girl make it actually "special" for a guy? It's not the same as with girls. Hell, light a few candles at night, put on music, and you've got me all mushy inside.. How do girls even make it special for a guy? Is it possible?
      And how can I change it up?
      We do different positions a lot and look them up on the net.. I even put on a sexy outfit for him..
      How can I make it different?
      Thanks SO much for answering my questions. :-)
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      once_in_a_lifetime_luv wrote:

      I hate giving blow jobs. :-)
      I'm kind of getting bored with the sex in my relationship, he doesn't seem like he is though.. How can a girl make it actually "special" for a guy? It's not the same as with girls. Hell, light a few candles at night, put on music, and you've got me all mushy inside.. How do girls even make it special for a guy? Is it possible?
      And how can I change it up?
      We do different positions a lot and look them up on the net.. I even put on a sexy outfit for him..
      How can I make it different?
      Thanks SO much for answering my questions. :-)


      well depending on the type of guy, you have different approaches.

      What i find very special from my girlfriend is just when we can have meaningful conversations about nothing, or anything lol well i just like to be with her...

      well speaking truthfully... nothing about sex makes a guy really mushy... it makes him hard and this is it. XD

      you just gotta be attentive-- but not too attentive.

      LOVE attentive girls, but if theyre so attentive that they dont understand that u dont want to talk to them, urk. But if its already a relationship u should already know limits. :)
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      Dr.Carter wrote:

      The answers vary from girl to girl... I can't really go out on a limb and give you a yes or no for each situation.


      Thanks Dr.Carter.
      It kind of depends on if you "love" them right..? I think it would but I'm not a guy.. Hmm..

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      eccentric. reach wrote:

      well depending on the type of guy, you have different approaches.

      What i find very special from my girlfriend is just when we can have meaningful conversations about nothing, or anything lol well i just like to be with her...

      well speaking truthfully... nothing about sex makes a guy really mushy... it makes him hard and this is it. XD

      you just gotta be attentive-- but not too attentive.

      LOVE attentive girls, but if theyre so attentive that they dont understand that u dont want to talk to them, urk. But if its already a relationship u should already know limits. :)


      Hmm, I don't think it's possible for my fiance and I to actually just hang out, I have tried but anytime we cuddle or lay by eachother he gets hard.. but my point in asking the question in the first place was because I think I'm going to cut him off until we're married, that way it's special for me..
      I just don't want him to run off with someone else.. I don't think he would but who knows..
      I have trust problems...
      and.. haha so funny. :-))
      what exactly do you mean by attentive?
      I try to talk to him.. but he doesn't want to talk about a lot of things.. or he says it's the wrong time. and sometimes it is I guess.. :-/
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      once_in_a_lifetime_luv wrote:

      Hmm, I don't think it's possible for my fiance and I to actually just hang out, I have tried but anytime we cuddle or lay by eachother he gets hard.. but my point in asking the question in the first place was because I think I'm going to cut him off until we're married, that way it's special for me..
      I just don't want him to run off with someone else.. I don't think he would but who knows..
      I have trust problems...
      and.. haha so funny. :-))
      what exactly do you mean by attentive?
      I try to talk to him.. but he doesn't want to talk about a lot of things.. or he says it's the wrong time. and sometimes it is I guess.. :-/



      Well best thing is to ignore it if hes hard (unless he makes a move, ignore it... for now.) You dont need to jump him cus hes hard :P all guys get hard; its normal and easy.

      If its what matters to you, then you should tell him. say something like... "Hey [insertnamehere]... I'm thinking about keeping sex out of our relationship till later on / when im ready." (lol idk im not a girl :P) just use the right words and give him a message that youre not ready and somewhat insecure.

      I have major trust problems too, relax dw :)

      Well if he doesnt want to talk about it, tell him that you would like to talk about it, and let him mull over it before bringing it up again. and tbh, if u use the right words and direct the conversation properly, its almost never a wrong time. :)

      easy way to start talking about is just think about it when youre with him until he asks you whats wrong or what are you thinking about, then have your little dnm :)
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      once_in_a_lifetime_luv wrote:

      You guys want what you can't have and once you have it you don't want it anymore? Refering to sex of course.

      And if you love the girl will you stay with her even if she gives it to you?

      Last question,
      If you're with a girl and she's given it to you before but she doesn't want to anymore and cuts you off, will you go cheat on her?

      Answer all three please..:wink:


      No.
      Yes.
      No.
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      I can't hear you. I have a banana in my ear.:ninja:
    • Re: Hey guys! Is this true!?

      a. not quite true, we want what we cant have MORE but so do girls, once we have it, sex wise, we still want it, but not so desperately, immedietly after sex we dont want it really, personally i just want to go to sleep :rolleyes:


      b. obviously you will stay with a girl you love even if she gives you sex. any guy with a bit of decency will anyway, then again, most guys dont know the meaning of the word decency.



      c. if your having sex and you suddenly stop giving it to him, hes gonna be pissed off. i personally wouldnt cheat unless it was permanently removed, in which case i would try my best but honestly, i couldnt physically make myself celebate, id just turn to hookers, most guys would probably just leave you or cheat. In the real world, sex is basically a requirement in any long term relationship involving partners who have had sex at some point in their life. if theyre having sex already, you cant just stop it off.

      breaks from sex e.g a week or so to spice it up are perfectly acceptable. but you never last long afterwards, i see my girlfriend every fortnight or so atm because she is going to college 150 miles away but every time we meet up she lasts about 5 minutes. maybe thats just because im a sex god but more likely because she's extra horny.

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      eccentric. reach wrote:

      Well best thing is to ignore it if hes hard (unless he makes a move, ignore it... for now.) You dont need to jump him cus hes hard :P all guys get hard; its normal and easy.

      If its what matters to you, then you should tell him. say something like... "Hey [insertnamehere]... I'm thinking about keeping sex out of our relationship till later on / when im ready." (lol idk im not a girl :P) just use the right words and give him a message that youre not ready and somewhat insecure.

      I have major trust problems too, relax dw :)

      Well if he doesnt want to talk about it, tell him that you would like to talk about it, and let him mull over it before bringing it up again. and tbh, if u use the right words and direct the conversation properly, its almost never a wrong time. :)

      easy way to start talking about is just think about it when youre with him until he asks you whats wrong or what are you thinking about, then have your little dnm :)


      He does make a move.. A huge move haha. He like gets upset when I tell him I don't want to. (we have done it before btw) We use to do it a lot and I'm not comfortable with that because I want to know how he feels without the sex being involved.. Especially before we get married.

      I told him very calmly that I don't want to do it and he knows I don't but he ends up trying and I say no but he keeps trying.. I do believe he has actually raped me before.. Technically anyway.. but I love him so what ever..

      We're supposed to talk later today about some stuff I want to talk about but I bet you he will find an excuse not to.. I'll try to be calm and collected and to keep him interested. lol.

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      Sharkbait wrote:

      a. not quite true, we want what we cant have MORE but so do girls, once we have it, sex wise, we still want it, but not so desperately, immedietly after sex we dont want it really, personally i just want to go to sleep :rolleyes:


      b. obviously you will stay with a girl you love even if she gives you sex. any guy with a bit of decency will anyway, then again, most guys dont know the meaning of the word decency.



      c. if your having sex and you suddenly stop giving it to him, hes gonna be pissed off. i personally wouldnt cheat unless it was permanently removed, in which case i would try my best but honestly, i couldnt physically make myself celebate, id just turn to hookers, most guys would probably just leave you or cheat. In the real world, sex is basically a requirement in any long term relationship involving partners who have had sex at some point in their life. if theyre having sex already, you cant just stop it off.

      breaks from sex e.g a week or so to spice it up are perfectly acceptable. but you never last long afterwards, i see my girlfriend every fortnight or so atm because she is going to college 150 miles away but every time we meet up she lasts about 5 minutes. maybe thats just because im a sex god but more likely because she's extra horny.


      It wouldn't be totally removed.. I was thinking like 3 months before we get married that way the honeymoon will be like OMFG!! And I last a looooong time when we haven't done it for awhile. It's quite fun.

      I agree about the decency thing too btw.. Most guys have no clue what it means..
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      once_in_a_lifetime_luv wrote:

      He does make a move.. A huge move haha. He like gets upset when I tell him I don't want to. (we have done it before btw) We use to do it a lot and I'm not comfortable with that because I want to know how he feels without the sex being involved.. Especially before we get married.

      I told him very calmly that I don't want to do it and he knows I don't but he ends up trying and I say no but he keeps trying.. I do believe he has actually raped me before.. Technically anyway.. but I love him so what ever..

      We're supposed to talk later today about some stuff I want to talk about but I bet you he will find an excuse not to.. I'll try to be calm and collected and to keep him interested. lol.

      It wouldn't be totally removed.. I was thinking like 3 months before we get married that way the honeymoon will be like OMFG!! And I last a looooong time when we haven't done it for awhile. It's quite fun.

      I agree about the decency thing too btw.. Most guys have no clue what it means..



      I think you should tell him exactly how you feel.

      I'm sorry.. but if he cannot see that you dont want sex, then youve got to force him to talk, just like he forced u into sex.

      You should talk to him about this like how youve talked here because it is very important that your needs and wants are also very clear to him.

      Trust me, it wont get somewhere good if you guys dont work on it.

      Thats where my relationship is at atm... I dont know anything about my gfs wants and shes not very responsive and were in a break.

      You need to get it sorted.
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      eccentric. reach wrote:

      I think you should tell him exactly how you feel.

      I'm sorry.. but if he cannot see that you dont want sex, then youve got to force him to talk, just like he forced u into sex.

      You should talk to him about this like how youve talked here because it is very important that your needs and wants are also very clear to him.

      Trust me, it wont get somewhere good if you guys dont work on it.

      Thats where my relationship is at atm... I dont know anything about my gfs wants and shes not very responsive and were in a break.

      You need to get it sorted.



      I know.. I tried to briefly tell him.. Like in short easy sentences since he's a guy but I think it's come to the point where we need to have a sit down.. Maybe with a bit o' tea.. Lol Just kidding about that..
      I'm hyper.. and it's not helping..
      but yeah.. I have tried to tell him.. I should copy that post I put and show it to him.. Like have it as a guide for when I talk to him. :)
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      once_in_a_lifetime_luv wrote:

      I know.. I tried to briefly tell him.. Like in short easy sentences since he's a guy but I think it's come to the point where we need to have a sit down.. Maybe with a bit o' tea.. Lol Just kidding about that..
      I'm hyper.. and it's not helping..
      but yeah.. I have tried to tell him.. I should copy that post I put and show it to him.. Like have it as a guide for when I talk to him. :)



      hmmmh.

      Well if you must, talk about it over dinner somewhere. Its important no matter where it is said, it just has to be said, discussed, and an agreement has to be made. :)

      Yeah, good idea is to write down everything thats gone through your mind today and use that as a guide :)
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