Okay, I'm new here and I'm just going to spill my guts about everything that's going on right now coz everything is SHIT (I'll try to keep this short) ...
Firstly, my boyfriend of 7 months dumped me coz he found out i still smoke even though i said i'd stopped (LONG story short ... i tried to stop coz he asked me to, but basically everyone i know does so i couldn't keep it up). But I'm kinda cool with that coz, even though he's the best shag ever, he's a bit of a dick.
Secondly, my dad moved here (australia) from america two months ago with his wife and their kids (the older one is my age and she's not his). I hate my dad with a passion. He's seven years older than my mum and her god-brother, they had a one-night stand when Beth was 16. when he found out he ran off to the states. His parents made him come back to marry beth, but instead of getting married like the proper conservative christians their parents wanted them to be, they ran away and lived together for two years (as friends).
Another long story short: he ran away again to america, dropping in on us every few years and throwing us money (he's rich). Everytime he's here, he breaks my mum's heart. Now he lives here and she's being really nice to him and trying to play happy families ... I have been fighting with her for days (we NEVER fight) about how she's acting.
Today she dropped a bombshell: she's going to sydney to see her sister who she hasn't spoken to for 16 years and ... get this ... I have to stay with my dad while she's gone. I am so annoyed coz i hate him so much and I met his wife and her daughter a few years ago when they visited and they are the biggest bitches ever.
And lastly (for now), my fake-brother (i've known him all my life, our mum's are best friends ... etc.) who has a great job is at uni and has been going out with the nicest girl for about six years cheated on her with one of the waitresses at his mum's cafe and now she's pregnant.
I know I should be there and support him, but right now I just want to slap him coz he hasn't even told his girlfriend yet and I know he will eventually and I know she will leave him and I know he just won't be able to handle that and his mum will be really disapointed with him and they're like my family and with me and Beth fighting, my family is cracked enough as it is!!!!!
There, that's the bulk of my rant.
Please, if anyone has any advice or ANYTHING I'd really appreciate it
Molly
Firstly, my boyfriend of 7 months dumped me coz he found out i still smoke even though i said i'd stopped (LONG story short ... i tried to stop coz he asked me to, but basically everyone i know does so i couldn't keep it up). But I'm kinda cool with that coz, even though he's the best shag ever, he's a bit of a dick.
Secondly, my dad moved here (australia) from america two months ago with his wife and their kids (the older one is my age and she's not his). I hate my dad with a passion. He's seven years older than my mum and her god-brother, they had a one-night stand when Beth was 16. when he found out he ran off to the states. His parents made him come back to marry beth, but instead of getting married like the proper conservative christians their parents wanted them to be, they ran away and lived together for two years (as friends).
Another long story short: he ran away again to america, dropping in on us every few years and throwing us money (he's rich). Everytime he's here, he breaks my mum's heart. Now he lives here and she's being really nice to him and trying to play happy families ... I have been fighting with her for days (we NEVER fight) about how she's acting.
Today she dropped a bombshell: she's going to sydney to see her sister who she hasn't spoken to for 16 years and ... get this ... I have to stay with my dad while she's gone. I am so annoyed coz i hate him so much and I met his wife and her daughter a few years ago when they visited and they are the biggest bitches ever.
And lastly (for now), my fake-brother (i've known him all my life, our mum's are best friends ... etc.) who has a great job is at uni and has been going out with the nicest girl for about six years cheated on her with one of the waitresses at his mum's cafe and now she's pregnant.
I know I should be there and support him, but right now I just want to slap him coz he hasn't even told his girlfriend yet and I know he will eventually and I know she will leave him and I know he just won't be able to handle that and his mum will be really disapointed with him and they're like my family and with me and Beth fighting, my family is cracked enough as it is!!!!!
There, that's the bulk of my rant.
Please, if anyone has any advice or ANYTHING I'd really appreciate it
Molly