my gf has been hurt and all in the past, and she doents trust me, its like she thinks im going to hurt her, and so shes afraid to let me in, i really feel bad cuz she thinks liek this and i have no idea what todo........any advice i could really use it. ive never give her a reason to doubt me but still she just doesnt trust me enough,.........sometimes i think she never will............:confused:
Sad..........
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give her time.. just say you want to be there for her.. etc. I've been in an abused realtionship and with my current boyfriend sometimes i still push him away because im afraid.. it takes a while to heal from past tragic events.
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you can tell her all you want that you wont hurt her it wont make a diff. you have to show her. in time she will trust you.Your tongueis a rudder, it steers the whole ship Sends your words past your lips and keeps them safe behind your teeth. But the wrong will strand you[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
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She just needs time. Be there for her and neve do anything to make her doubt you. It takes time for girls to build up that level of trust with anyone once it's been destroyed by someone. It will be fine in time.[CENTER][SIZE=2][/SIZE] [/CENTER]
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yourlife wrote:
my gf has been hurt and all in the past, and she doents trust me, its like she thinks im going to hurt her, and so shes afraid to let me in, i really feel bad cuz she thinks liek this and i have no idea what todo........any advice i could really use it. ive never give her a reason to doubt me but still she just doesnt trust me enough,.........sometimes i think she never will............:confused:
You need to be there, for her, with her, by her side as much as you can be. Girls carry their insecuritues from relationships to others, so is nothing abnormal. I've been with my man 2 years and I still have insecurities with him, I get scared of little things but I've grown to let it go. You need to make her understand that you care and will care, no matter what. It's the little things that show it, actions speak louder than words, etc, etc. -
Just give her time. The best thing you can do for her is to show her that you're there for her, and that you don't want to push anything. Just show her that you're willing to do what she needs to make her feel comfortable.[CENTER][SIZE=5][SIZE=6]Bismarck [/SIZE]
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if she has been hurt shes not going to let you in easily, you just need to show her that you will be there fore her whnever she needs you and that she can trust you, with time she will learn to trust you more. but saying it wont hellp, because anyone can say it, you have to show it.
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you gotta prove to her that youre not like every other guy.
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hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. good luck man.
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