OK, this may be a little long, but it needs to be to explain everything I have to say.
There is this great girl who I like a lot(name is Debbie so I can use that name instead of "this girl) and she went away to college this year. Now me, I am a high school senior this year, and I am also planning on going to the same college as she is going to. With about 3 weeks left in the previous school year, I told her that I liked her. She told me that she had to think about it a little bit, and that she would get back to me on the next day. So I left it to God, and said that whatever happens, happens. The next day, she called me into a discreet place in the band room(yes, we are band kids, not geeks though. We both play two sports a year and are very good at out respective sports) an told me that she was really flattered but there just wasnt enough time left togeth to pursure a relationship. Anyway, I took this as her kinda leaving the door open to when we are together in college.
Now my question is, should I wait until I am in college to pursue her, or just give her up and move on?
And, just for reference, I have never dated before in my life, and probably the first person I date will be my future wife. I am 17 years old, and she turns 19 this year. Any advice is greatly appreciated.
There is this great girl who I like a lot(name is Debbie so I can use that name instead of "this girl) and she went away to college this year. Now me, I am a high school senior this year, and I am also planning on going to the same college as she is going to. With about 3 weeks left in the previous school year, I told her that I liked her. She told me that she had to think about it a little bit, and that she would get back to me on the next day. So I left it to God, and said that whatever happens, happens. The next day, she called me into a discreet place in the band room(yes, we are band kids, not geeks though. We both play two sports a year and are very good at out respective sports) an told me that she was really flattered but there just wasnt enough time left togeth to pursure a relationship. Anyway, I took this as her kinda leaving the door open to when we are together in college.
Now my question is, should I wait until I am in college to pursue her, or just give her up and move on?
And, just for reference, I have never dated before in my life, and probably the first person I date will be my future wife. I am 17 years old, and she turns 19 this year. Any advice is greatly appreciated.
like that ever again...I will bitch slap you. I hope you don't actually go around telling people that IRL. 
