Why won't she use her tongue??

Fabregas · Jan 22nd 2010, 9:14pm

When me girlfriend and i kiss, our mouths are both open and moving and its all good, except that she doesn't use her tongue at all! And i want her to! "/ Do girls not like that?? Any advise on how to get her to use her tongue? :confused:

Poo-tee-weet? · Jan 22nd 2010, 9:29pm

Well, the only realistic thing you can do is to ask her about it. It may be an awkward question, but if you legitimately want to know, then say something. Some people just don't like using their tongue, it just varies person to person :).

schmedes2 · Jan 22nd 2010, 10:41pm

This is hilarious, I laughed out loud when I read this. I used to wonder the same thing about my current girlfriend and after about 2 months, I finally asked her. She was like

"Wait, what? You're the one that doesn't kiss with your tongue! I thought that's what you liked"

We both had stopped using our tongues because we thought that's what the other person wanted.

Just ask her

silly · Jan 22nd 2010, 11:10pm

Some girls may not like it so just ask her if it is alright for her

Sharxbyte · Jan 23rd 2010, 11:29pm

lol have you talked to her about it? might help...

stevie28 · Jan 24th 2010, 5:05am

You guys tell him to talk to her about it, but its a much weirder question than usual in relationships, and some real weird ones come up

Raylan Givens · Jan 24th 2010, 5:18am

It could very well be a comfort level thing, depending on how long you two have actually been together, other then that, simply asking her or talking to her about it is your only other option.

She might not just like that type of thing, not all girls are the same.

schmedes2 · Jan 24th 2010, 5:19am

stevie28 wrote:

You guys tell him to talk to her about it, but its a much weirder question than usual in relationships, and some real weird ones come up

Communication is the best thing for any relationship problem

keeladee · Jan 24th 2010, 8:10am

Sometimes it's weird

It depends on how well you know her, and a lot of other variables.

I would say, try it once as like a test.

ivaiva · Jan 24th 2010, 12:28pm

Ask her.
Do you use your tongue?
It's hard to believe that if you put your tongue in her mouth she deosn't do nothing with hers.

Fabregas · Jan 24th 2010, 4:34pm

ivaiva wrote:

Ask her.
Do you use your tongue?
It's hard to believe that if you put your tongue in her mouth she deosn't do nothing with hers.

Lol, i don't just shove my tongue into her mouth! I just lightly lick her lower lip, but she doesn't respond. But the problem is sort of solved; i asked her about it and she said she wanted to but she was scared that she might mess up! XP All good now

Thanks for the help guys! :excited:

ComplicatedMind · Jan 24th 2010, 9:26pm

Fabregas wrote:

Lol, i don't just shove my tongue into her mouth! I just lightly lick her lower lip, but she doesn't respond. But the problem is sort of solved; i asked her about it and she said she wanted to but she was scared that she might mess up! XP All good now Thanks for the help guys!

That is definitely the only reason why people do not use tongues...They have no experience in it and do not want to mess up the setting in case they do bad. Tell her that she is allowed to practice on you.

username #90 · Jan 24th 2010, 9:34pm

she can barely get her lips to yours, and you want toungue. I think she deserves credit for even beind within touching distance of you.

alexh · Jan 24th 2010, 9:44pm

i used to hate using my tongue (hygeine etc) but then i got used to it and started to love it

patience !!

shorty · Jan 25th 2010, 2:04am

she may be self concious about it.. i mean.. she may not have alot of experience

or she may just not want to...

the best thing for you to do is talk to her about it..
it's probably not a big deal

Fabregas · Jan 25th 2010, 7:15pm

BlackBritishPsycho wrote:

she can barely get her lips to yours, and you want toungue. I think she deserves credit for even beind within touching distance of you.

1. Learn how to spell tongue and being.
2. What the hell are you talking about?? "/ A guy is asking for help, and all you can do is take a cheap shot at him, even though you don't even know me?? Sounds to me like you're an arrogant twat.
3. She doesn't stand within touching distance of me, she stands TOUCHING me.

username #90 · Jan 25th 2010, 7:19pm

Fabregas wrote:

1. Learn how to spell tongue and being.
2. What the hell are you talking about?? "/ A guy is asking for help, and all you can do is take a cheap shot at him, even though you don't even know me?? Sounds to me like you're an arrogant twat.
3. She doesn't stand within touching distance of me, she stands TOUCHING me.

Called mistakes mate.

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