My boyfriend of 7 months recently broke up with me, but I kind of saw it coming. I didn't want our relationship to end at all, however. For a while, he seemed totally distant and acted like a jerk every time I tried being closer to him and talking to him. He revealed to me that he's been confused because he think he's bisexual. He says he likes this one guy. Apparently his feelings for the guy has escalated in the span of 2-3 weeks, and his feelings for me sort of slowly died off.
Two close friends of mine told me they think he's just downright gay. But he said to me that he was confused still. So maybe he isn't fully bisexual yet. I've known him for sooooo long, yet he's known this one guy for about a month. He was in a whole 'depression' kind of mood, and pushed me away. And well, he's attracted to happy people who are constantly there for him. So in comes at the right moment this one cheery friendly guy, who ends up being there for him better than I was since he wouldn't let me into his life anymore. They're also really similar in style, and possibly personality too. Exactly like me and him.
It leads me to believe that it's because of how friendly the guy was and how similar they were, that makes him question his sexuality. He fell in love with me when I was the one who was constantly there for him about a year ago. So maybe that's why he thinks he's falling for this guy. AND, the guy confessed to him that he was bisexual, and that he'd totally date him if he were gay.
He means a lot to me, and I really don't want to lose him to a guy, or anyone else for that matter. Don't get me wrong, I have NOTHING against gays, bisexuals, etc. It's just, we've been through so much together, but he just up and leaves me for another guy. Is there anyway I could pull the odds in my favor and make him fall in love with me again?
Two close friends of mine told me they think he's just downright gay. But he said to me that he was confused still. So maybe he isn't fully bisexual yet. I've known him for sooooo long, yet he's known this one guy for about a month. He was in a whole 'depression' kind of mood, and pushed me away. And well, he's attracted to happy people who are constantly there for him. So in comes at the right moment this one cheery friendly guy, who ends up being there for him better than I was since he wouldn't let me into his life anymore. They're also really similar in style, and possibly personality too. Exactly like me and him.
It leads me to believe that it's because of how friendly the guy was and how similar they were, that makes him question his sexuality. He fell in love with me when I was the one who was constantly there for him about a year ago. So maybe that's why he thinks he's falling for this guy. AND, the guy confessed to him that he was bisexual, and that he'd totally date him if he were gay.
He means a lot to me, and I really don't want to lose him to a guy, or anyone else for that matter. Don't get me wrong, I have NOTHING against gays, bisexuals, etc. It's just, we've been through so much together, but he just up and leaves me for another guy. Is there anyway I could pull the odds in my favor and make him fall in love with me again?