whats with sluuts?

  • Re: whats with sluuts?

    Its not a finer thing in life if you "enjoy" it with 3 different fella's every night.


    Things are no where near as satisfying if you "enjoy" them ALL the time, and did no work to earn them, theyre no longer rewards, theyre pass times.


    Not only that but sex is supposed to be considered something sacred and intimate, you cant have something sacred and intimate with 3 different men at the the same time that you dont know.


    Also, it doesnt matter whether something doesnt make sense, whether its out of date, whether its not fair or whether its nobody elses business, what matters is what people think of what you do, because unless you live in a bubble, or your somehow capable of surviving happily without anyone else, public opinion does matter, and if what you think is right and reasonable goes against local moral's, your going to have problems, culture matters.

    If people THINK what you do is wrong, THAT IS ALL THAT MATTERS, you are going to be treated differently, often poorly, if people really disagree with what you think is right and reasonable, then your going to be discriminated against.

    If you can deal with that then thats good for you, some sluts might have decided they just dont care how theyre treated, more often i think they dont realise the damage theyre causing themselves.

    ANNND societies views of such behaviour are certainly not going to change any time soon(no matter how much people protest, even if somethin is passed into law, things wont change, if people have been raised to believe something their views are never going to change), certainly they wont be extinct within the next coupla generations.

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    pretty sure society has changed since 1900
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  • Re: whats with sluuts?

    Also, no dude is gonna respect a girl who puts out 45minutes after meeting him.

    Theres a fine balance of when to put out, if you put out too soon your a slut and cant be trusted, if you put out too late he'll get bored and go elsewhere.

    We should hold a poll, "would you date a girl who had drunken sex with you the night you met her?"


    i doubt there'd be many yes' because that just says to a guy theres a good chance you'd do that with some other guy while you were dating.


    I'd also like to say there is a good chance that most of the girls sticking up for sluts in here are infact not sluts, theyre probably quite prudish and are only sticking up for sluts because they think there is some kind of double standard (which there isnt because the mechanics of being a slut and a player are TOTALLY different).


    BTW i have no problem with girls being sluts, im just defending my right to call them sluts and not respect them. After all, people can do what they like with their own bodies, but i can also think what i want to think of them and treat them how i want to treat them.

  • Re: whats with sluuts?

    Sharkbait wrote:

    Its not a finer thing in life if you "enjoy" it with 3 different fella's every night.


    Things are no where near as satisfying if you "enjoy" them ALL the time, and did no work to earn them, theyre no longer rewards, theyre pass times.


    Not only that but sex is supposed to be considered something sacred and intimate, you cant have something sacred and intimate with 3 different men at the the same time that you dont know.


    Also, it doesnt matter whether something doesnt make sense, whether its out of date, whether its not fair or whether its nobody elses business, what matters is what people think of what you do, because unless you live in a bubble, or your somehow capable of surviving happily without anyone else, public opinion does matter, and if what you think is right and reasonable goes against local moral's, your going to have problems, culture matters.

    If people THINK what you do is wrong, THAT IS ALL THAT MATTERS, you are going to be treated differently, often poorly, if people really disagree with what you think is right and reasonable, then your going to be discriminated against.

    If you can deal with that then thats good for you, some sluts might have decided they just dont care how theyre treated, more often i think they dont realise the damage theyre causing themselves.

    ANNND societies views of such behaviour are certainly not going to change any time soon(no matter how much people protest, even if somethin is passed into law, things wont change, if people have been raised to believe something their views are never going to change), certainly they wont be extinct within the next coupla generations.


    Now, now. I personally would not enjoy having sex with three men in one night. However, if I am able to score three women I am a happy girl. What is wrong with having a strong sexual appetite?

    Don't tell me that public opinion matters. I don't follow the law and really don't give a shit about fitting into the society I belong to's norm. I follow my own moral compass and do what I feel is right. You are correct about the importance of others, communication is vital.. but to say that one needs to follow the norms to be able to hold any sort of relationship with another person is completely and utterly false. Though you may be frowned upon by most of those around you doesn't mean that you don't have others who agree with your views.. or simply just don't find them extremely negative.
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  • Re: whats with sluuts?

    I believe there is no argueing with the fact that being overly promiscuous is going to make things more difficult for you in later life, or maybe even immedietely, youve got nothing to loose in school because it doesnt matter what people think of you, but if people at work, more importantly your boss finds out about your habits and he doesnt like that kind of behaviour it certainly could cause you problems.

    And your definaetly going to have more difficulty keeping a relationship going with a fella if he knows you are/were very promiscuous. Some guys might not care but most guys would be embarrassed if they found out their girlfriend had slept with 14 dudes in the week before they met. Certainly his friends would make jokes at his expense for it.

    If i found out my girlfriend was a big slut, even if she wasnt now, id be looking for a way out, and i dont know a guy who hasnt avoided a relationship with a girl he knows will put out for anyone, because how can he trust her? words mean nothing, promises mean nothing, actions, even past actions are what people judge you on, if a girl likes to have sex with lots of guys, a guy is going to think she isnt going to change for him so he isnt going to risk it.

  • Re: whats with sluuts?

    Sharkbait wrote:

    Its not a finer thing in life if you "enjoy" it with 3 different fella's every night.


    Things are no where near as satisfying if you "enjoy" them ALL the time, and did no work to earn them, theyre no longer rewards, theyre pass times.


    Not only that but sex is supposed to be considered something sacred and intimate, you cant have something sacred and intimate with 3 different men at the the same time that you dont know.


    Also, it doesnt matter whether something doesnt make sense, whether its out of date, whether its not fair or whether its nobody elses business, what matters is what people think of what you do, because unless you live in a bubble, or your somehow capable of surviving happily without anyone else, public opinion does matter, and if what you think is right and reasonable goes against local moral's, your going to have problems, culture matters.

    If people THINK what you do is wrong, THAT IS ALL THAT MATTERS, you are going to be treated differently, often poorly, if people really disagree with what you think is right and reasonable, then your going to be discriminated against.

    If you can deal with that then thats good for you, some sluts might have decided they just dont care how theyre treated, more often i think they dont realise the damage theyre causing themselves.

    ANNND societies views of such behaviour are certainly not going to change any time soon(no matter how much people protest, even if somethin is passed into law, things wont change, if people have been raised to believe something their views are never going to change), certainly they wont be extinct within the next coupla generations.

    god this post has so many ridiculous 'points' in it.

    this is enough to make me unsubscribe to this thread. i'm glad i don't have such a closed mind to this sort of thing. i know someone will try to say i have a closed mind to those who do think this way, but sorry, that argument is just not the same at all.
    some people just need to grow up and stop seeing sex as such a taboo thing. we have actually DIGRESSED in terms of sexuality in culture. and that is what is so pathetic about all of it, and one reason why i refuse to use these terms or judge anyone by how many partners they choose to have or by what they choose to do with their body. it's not my business and has nothing to do with me, so the fact that you use that and say it doesn't matter, to me, is just completely odd. really a horrible argument in general.

    but like i said...unsubscribe. i've put in my two cents and none of the dribble in this thread will make me change my mind. i've heard it ALL before. and it is always the same arguments. and none of them make any sense to me no matter how hard i try to make sense of it.
    have fun with this little 'debate', if you can even call it that.

  • Re: whats with sluuts?

    Sharkbait wrote:

    I believe there is no argueing with the fact that being overly promiscuous is going to make things more difficult for you in later life, or maybe even immedietely, youve got nothing to loose in school because it doesnt matter what people think of you, but if people at work, more importantly your boss finds out about your habits and he doesnt like that kind of behaviour it certainly could cause you problems.

    And your definaetly going to have more difficulty keeping a relationship going with a fella if he knows you are/were very promiscuous. Some guys might not care but most guys would be embarrassed if they found out their girlfriend had slept with 14 dudes in the week before they met. Certainly his friends would make jokes at his expense for it.

    If i found out my girlfriend was a big slut, even if she wasnt now, id be looking for a way out, and i dont know a guy who hasnt avoided a relationship with a girl he knows will put out for anyone, because how can he trust her? words mean nothing, promises mean nothing, actions, even past actions are what people judge you on, if a girl likes to have sex with lots of guys, a guy is going to think she isnt going to change for him so he isnt going to risk it.


    I just think that it is ridiculous to not trust someone because they have slept around BEFORE YOU WERE WITH HER. I mean, how is her love for sex in anyway insinuate that she is a liar, cheat, or a bad person. Sex is a very enjoyable activity.. I mean.. do you really call someone who is fat a terrible person because they enjoy eating food. Sure, it may be affecting them physically.. but to make judgement on their character because of it is more than just a bit silly.
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  • Re: whats with sluuts?

    Why do you people care so much what other people do with their bodies?

    good lord grow the fuck up.

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    also; why does sharkbait talk so much? it just goes on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on

  • Re: whats with sluuts?

    mandible wrote:

    Why do you people care so much what other people do with their bodies?

    good lord grow the fuck up.

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    also; why does sharkbait talk so much? it just goes on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on

    Sometimes people enjoy writing big long paragraphs to make it seem as if they are intelligent or simply just know what they talk about.. when they really have no idea and they are just bullshitting. My hypothesis is that he is one of those people.
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  • Re: whats with sluuts?

    Sharxbyte wrote:

    I think all man-sluts should get high and put their dicks in a meatgrinder... Any guy who feels like he can sleep around but that all girls who do are trash should...

    my two cents...

    My third? I don't really like it when girls don't pay attention to how their clothes will negatively(or I guess some guys would see it as positive) affect guys... I don't have a problem with showing a little skin, but dressing explicitly to turn guys on is cruel, and manipulative... I realize that some girls think something is cute and truthfully don't think about it, but you should... Do you really want guys looking at you like you're a piece of porn to jack off to? Older men aren't immune either.... Hot young flesh is the same no-matter if the girl is 16 or 25... they are just WAY more hesitant to admit they are attracted to the 16 year old who's short shorts or tight shirt reveal too much...


    well said :D

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    one more thing i would like to address is Sharxbyte's comment "Do you really want guys looking at you like you're a piece of porn to jack off to?" personally, yes, yes i do. that is the type of career/side career i want to get into. and that's exactly the point of it all. so yeah, that's my goal with the photos i put out there.
    it's extremely flattering to me to know that men are aroused by the photos they look at of me. i've gotten plenty of names thrown at me for it too, c'est la vie. it's not my problem that other people have such an issue with how i live my life. i'm not forcing anyone to look at anything. and if i want to dress sexy in public and it makes me feel good, i'm going to do it regardless of how other men or women think of me.     and while nothing i wear is exactly overly-revealing, it is definitely considered revealing to a lot of people (low-cut shirts, high heels, corsets, thigh-high stockings, especially fishnets, things like that) regardless of the fact that you don't see anything necessarily 'bad' or whatever you'd like to call it and really not much skin is exposed outside of the photos i do, and even if it is, the same applies as i said above.

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  • Re: whats with sluuts?

    Sharkbait wrote:

    My god what a wonderful bubble you all live in, where no one cares about what everyone else does, where there is no gossip, and no one judges people, and where everyone trusts everyone elses word, no matter how they act.


    your hyperbole aside, we're talking about sex specifically in this topic.

    not everythhinnnggg. go live contained in your square where woman who have sexual appetites can't be trusted and you value the past more then the intentions of the future.

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    Sharkbait wrote:

    My god what a wonderful bubble you all live in, where no one cares about what everyone else does, where there is no gossip, and no one judges people, and where everyone trusts everyone elses word, no matter how they act.

    you obviously didn't read. not caring what other people think because you are happy =/= living in a bubble and assuming no one says things about you and nobody is judgmental against anybody else or everyone trusts everyone else. god that is so ridiculously absurd i can't even believe you typed it unless it just was pure accident, which i am pretty positive it wasn't.

    i suggest if you are going to be in a debate, that you learn how to properly comprehend what is being said that you are arguing against. this post in particular shows that you clearly aren't understanding what's being said.

    i'm sorry it seems to be so incredibly difficult for you. really, it isn't. while i've had plenty of people disagree with my views, you're one of VERY few who seem to be unable to actually understand and grasp what i'm saying. and what others are saying as well. no skin off my back though. you don't affect my life. and what you think of me, despite what you want to believe, doesn't change the way i live or think at all even in the slightest. and why you think it should, regardless of how many people think the same way, is beyond me. but whatever. it's starting to get repetitive and just plain boring trying to get someone like you to grasp a simple concept.

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