I do believe i said in another post if you really dont care then thats good for you but most of these girls dont realise the positions they're putting themselves in.


Im gonna put this into simple points to make this easier for you to grasp since nobody seems to grasp what im trying to say:


1. Being a slut is easy, there is no double standard for men and women because men are assumed to want as much sex as they can get and women are assumed to not have sex for the sake of having sex, therefore if a girl wants to have tonnes of sex, its easy because most men will say yes, if a man wants to have lots of sex he has to do more work because most women wont just have sex with him.


2. Society respects people who work for their rewards, not people who get their rewards too easily.


3. Society does not like promiscuous women, it might be unfair but thats just how it is, this may cause you problems socially, especialy with men, because it might not make sense again, but people just dont trust a women who has been promiscuous in the past to stay faithful, it might not make sense, but thats just how it is.


4. Jesus christ, i dont care what you want to do with yourself, im just trying to tell you that people opinions dont have to make sense for them to be a valid problem.


5. We're talking majorities here, there are always going to be exceptions, people who dont care, but if the majority has a problem with you then that is going to cause you problems, they may not be permanent problems, and surely you will survive in the end, but your going to encounter problems along the way, THAT IS ALL IM TRYING TO SAY, not that your life is over once youve become a slut.....

enlighten me; what problems am i going to face because some idiots out there think i'm a slut for what i do? hm?
and by 'what i do' i mean what i posted, in a previous reply not to you at all, actually, about myself. i've been with two men in a period of 5 years so promiscuity does not apply to me. i want to know what you are saying, in your so well-informed opinion on the matter, what these problems are that i am going to face due to my life choices. also if you could give me a general time-frame as to when i'm going to face these alleged problems, that would be very appreciated too. and i really hope you don't brush off or ignore this part of this post. i want actual answers, not a facetious reply as if you are talking to someone who has mental retardation as you just did in your last post just because you weren't able to be clear in your previous ones.


as for your first remark, going back to what you originally stated, it was condescending and completely and utterly retarded the way it was worded. you aren't addressing it as majority until now; up until this post, you have addressed it as if it is factual information for everyone who lives a certain lifestyle and can't even bring yourself to post civilly enough to refer to these people as anything other than 'sluts' and saying, essentially, that they are too stupid or jaded to 'realize the things they are doing to their lives'. so don't try to all od a sudden redeem yourself because you were called out.

If that's all you're trying to say then you don't need to say it.

You're the last person anyone needs as a father figure on this forum. Stop trying to be a guiding light towards self enlightenment. It doesn't work for you when you can't articulate your posts intelligently or properly.

"Dont talk to me as if im retarded" followed by "your a retard", right ok....


"i've been with two men in a period of 5 years so promiscuity does not apply to me" followed by "problems are that i am going to face due to my life choices", well probably non because you clearly arent a slut and i have no idea why you are so butt hurt over a little debate, and why youve taken it so personally, when did i EVER call you a slut? Now if you get into porn, im still not calling you a slut, im just saying, you may well be bullied, shunned, abused, discriminated against, you clearly already sorted with the man side of things so that isnt a problem for you but it might be for another girl. You may well not be but who's to say, some people will certainly see your choices as reason to treat you like that.



Id also like to say im fairly certain ive been careful throughout to use the words "most, could, probably, alot, might, e.t.c" when refering to particular problems, because i know there is no certainty of it happening, but when ive said you will get problems, i mean that, you cant go through life without encountering people with a problem with you, and something thats as stigmatised as being say unfaithful, or incredibly promisuous, or anything that would get you the title "slut" is going to attract problems for you, infact clearly just being called a slut is a problem, otherwise people wouldnt be offended. the problems may well be minor but a problem none the less.

I guess im trying to say you make yourself a victim.


Maybe i should stop using the word "you" or "yourself" because im starting to think your interpreting that as meaning its aimed at you which it isnt, when i say "you" or "yourself," i mean the person who this applies to.

if it's such a minuscule problem as you yourself have described then why would anyone want to waste their time worrying about such insignificant things?

you're only a victim if actions, events, etc actually impact you and as already made clear by several people posting, they do not regret any choice they made. Hence the harm and impact are null which means there are no victims.

Stop trying to save people.

They're not a waste of skin. They are a valuable resource that plays an integral part in maintaining the equilibrial peace of the planet. If there was no sluts and the ladies just witheld their vaginas like it's a piece of valuable ore, then men would kill each other senseless in sexual frustraion, thus resulting in the inevitable destruction of our species and our planet itself.

So if you're a slut, I salute you.

heh, i would hardly call myself "butthurt" merely because i'm pointing out flaws in your argument.

your arguments and assumptions are just clearly ridiculous. and i'm not the only one who sees that. especially when you try to relate things that really have nothing to do with one another when used in context, rather than in the context you use them in while putting them next to one another in quotation marks.

but whatever, you keep your view and i will keep mine.

You know what, im too tired to keep argueing the toss with you, we're gonna have to agree to disagree because clearly you arent understanding what im trying to say and im apparently not getting what your trying to say.

guess not.

as the saying i just made up goes:

Slut on!

well, if you were talking to me, you just reiterated what i already said in the post above yours, sharkbait. i already made the decision to stop this argument and simply agree to keep our views and leave it at that. so there you go, reiteration unnecessary.

Id also like to say half the things im argueing about i dont actualy care about, like i said im just argueing the toss, im just trying to put a view in from the other side, anyways, in my mind it all makes sense, and im not trying to change views or anything, what im trying to do is, errrr, represent the other side i guess and give you a couple of reasons why they might think that way, maybe let you see why people would treat someone differently for something you consider natural and unimportant, because to some people it is important, and if someone has been raised to believe that, even if the reasoning behind their belief isnt logical, they are going to be offended, because logic doesnt rule, their nature rules.


I think i put it better there than anywhere else, i hope you got where im coming from this time, i dunno why i bothered to go over it again, im quite determined to be understood i guess, its hard to convey a view when your lacking sleep and trying to recover from the usual friday night activities :rofl:


Oh but i still think there is no double standard, that will be one we will have to disagree on hehe.

Kevmo7 wrote:

ughh go back to persia

what are you even talking about? moron.

babylon was under the control of the Achaemenid Empire (persians) until 650AD

I was merely saying that you sound like your from that time period, as the persian empire is long gone and the name persia has now been replaced with Iran

got me?

hahahahahahahahahhahahahahha

Words can not describe how much I worship you for this sentence.

do you mean actual sluts, as in prostitutes, or sluts as in sexually active people? i personaly dont see anything wrong with it. i would never go to a prostitute myself, but that is because i am not that desperate. its their body, and they are free to do whatever they want

the OP is specifically talking about sexually active people who are very sexually active.

but now that you bring it up, i support legalization of prostitution personally. people always try to argue against it, but it's only out of mere taboo and lack of understanding. in reality, legalizing it would be an extremely big step forward and a positive move, not a negative one, particularly in fighting diseases. that has been proven in specific places (and by specific, i mean countries which have good technology and are not considered third-world, etc) yet america in particular is so against it due to a ridiculous 'moral standing' held up by something that in itself is ridiculous, and ultimately goes against, literally, the single oldest actual profession/career ever.
people who argue against it are never convincing for me. mostly because they can't back up anything they say with sources and only have their opinions, which are nothing more than mere speculations based on, quite literally, nothing at all. and refuse to listen to the fact that ultimately, it is safer, and healthier, overall to legalize and regulate prostitution and taxed, it would help the economy, not harm it. but people hate listening to logic. sometimes, it really seems to kill their braincells and make them retarded.

Kevmo7 wrote:

babylon was under the control of the Achaemenid Empire (persians) until 650AD

I was merely saying that you sound like your from that time period, as the persian empire is long gone and the name persia has now been replaced with Iran

got me?

hahahahahahahahahhahahahahha

all i said was "what's a slut?" because clearly, different people have different opinions on what a slut is. i fail to see how that makes me sound like i'm from that time period.

oh, and my username is from a californication episode.

this.

they keep like interesting, drama, sex, amusement etc.