Umm first of you are only 14?!? and dating a 20 year old?!?! WTF?He sounds a bit pervy... I mean seriously, I am not going to lecture about the whole 14 year old thing because I had sex at 14 but nonetheles I will say now that on my part that was a dumb decision. And he took the condom off before/during you were having sex? And you allowed that? Do you want AIDS? or chlamydia? or Herpes, or a KID? Do you honestly think you are mature enough to handle a screaming baby at 3 in the morning? Or able to handle knowing your living with a disease that can and probably will end with your death? Honestly, I think not. Just reading your posts makes me think that you are no where near mature enough. No offense, but you really arent. You don't even know what statuatory rape is... It is when you sleep with someone over the age of 18 while you are under the ageof consent. Most states it is 16, but you can check here: Age of Consent - Sexual Consent Ages From Around The World

I don't blame your mom for flipping out. I would not have even allowed you to date someone that is 6 years your senior at 14. You are lucky your moms not pressing charges for statuatory rape.

I agree completely with this.
Especially the last bit.

you should cut off your testicals

dagingercode wrote:

you should cut off your testicals

Kuzntskiy should? If so, this is the first thing I've ever agreed with you on.

Kuzntskiy wrote:

Ah well, that is expected, I'd say. :p I know my statements don't go down very well on closet-paedophiles. I'd rather have all paedophiles castrated by the way, whether chemically or biologically.

bad as it sounds, I am with you there...

Sorry but he mom is right in this situation age is a big factor!

i know why your mom could be angery but if you think you can be responsible for the things you do you should sit down with her and have a heart to heart and tell her that you are responsible for your actions.. tell her that you use protection.... but you also need to talk to your boyfriend about the condom issue if he dosnt like using them you and him should look for another alternative contraseptive... like pills, female condom,Spermicides,Diaphragm, Cervical Cap, Contraceptive Sponge... or stick to plan Abstinence...

Kuzntskiy wrote:

I think your mother was irked most because she doted you as her daughter. Even if you think she looks at you like a mean, selfish child, you are still her daughter, nothing short of 'little princess' as ishyboy93 pointed out. No concerned parent wants their daughter being used by a boy much older than her in age and not the very least, in their own house.

The guy is a major by at least two years and you are most likely under tha age of consent, not to mention much younger than him. If you had sex with someone closer to your age, it might have been acceptable, but this sounds pretty disturbing. Your mother is still lenient, she didn't press charges on the guy, probably she still values your love for him.

*stands behind* *nods*

Rorei wrote:

*stands behind* *thrusts*

*cough*

You know how I like it.

Rorei wrote:

You know how I like it.

:eek:

Nevermind what I just said..lol I found out the problem thanks.

So i was saying, your mom is probably mad. let her calm down a bit...& yea...talk to her. maybe you guys would come to a compromise.

Hahaha.

Posts are prone to disappearance in threads in which Kuzntskiy is a part of.

Or maybe it didn't post.

yea. thanks. I found out the problem. It was my fault. Thanks

I can understand too. However if you felt instantly in love, which it does happen sometimes..then you may possibly have got carried away. Its natural and im sure your mom understands this. If your sensible, she would most likely.