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  • Does on the internet count? I think I may have seen a girl naked when I was very young but it was so long ago it's pretty much a blur, sorry. I don't think it was any of those 3 options.

  • Re: Are You A Paraphiliac?

    tyciol - - Teen Sexuality

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    I find some of the things classified under the category to be interesting, but not predominantly enough to classify myself under them. It needs to be ongoing and an obsessive preference before the label is applicable, so I hope people do not rush into diagnosing themselves. As anyone who has read about psychiatric conditions knows, out of curiosity some people become paranoid and attempt to fit themself under as many categories as possible. It would be good to consult a professional with experie…

  • Re: What attracts you?

    tyciol - - Teen Sexuality

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    I like lean tissue.

  • Re: I'm bi, he's ...

    tyciol - - LGBT

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    Quote from To the bone: “I just worry that because he is still in quite a young stage of life, that he's not entirely sure of his sexuality yet.” I don't think we're ever utterly sure of our sexualities. I don't believe they are static and that our interests can fluctuate a little. It's not so drastic that people will flip between extremes of hetero or homo sexuality within a week or anything, but I do think such bouncing might occur over the course of years for certain people, especially those …

  • Re: Being bi is 'cool'

    tyciol - - LGBT

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    Quote from LoveMeNot: “This is a topic that pisses me off. At my school, there are a lot of girls that say their bi just so they can get guys.... Anyone have any similar experiences? They're ruining the bi rep.” Who cares about this so-called 'bi rep'? There's no such thing. People can make whatever declarations that they like. It's my opinion that everyone's bisexual anyway. If certain so-called heteros or homos will not have relations with a certain gender then it means they are in denial abou…

  • I'd consider both, but I think I've got a more top-oriented personality.

  • It depends on your attitude while doing it. For example: even masturbation alone is homosexual in nature if you are actually attracted to yourself while doing it. If you do it while imagining the opposite sex, then even if you or another guy do it, it is not of gay intent: but the act is gay in nature. Even what goes on in prisons is not homosexual in nature because they don't have access to the opposite sex which they prefer and are most commonly imagining. Using a substitute just means you hav…

  • Re: Guys...can you?

    tyciol - - Teen Sexuality

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    Wow, whoever negged saying 'nerd alert', nice.

  • It may seem cold, but be understanding about it. The way you worded that "let me take you home" is like a commandment. The way you apologize is to tell her that you would like to talk with her, and then apologize for being commanding. You can't 'make her' like you back. Drop that attitude. If she doesn't like you, then there are 2 possibilities. Either she knows you well and truly doesn't like you, or she doesn't like the person she thinks you are. If she doesn't like a false persona: then take …

  • Communication is good when it is done in a tasteful manner. That said: being close to someone is not necessary for loving them. If you love someone truly then you must learn to take it if they don't want to be close with you, or if you need to leave their side to do things to protect them or the world they live in.

  • As someone who respects numbers and their use in math, and the complexity of human beings, I really can't give an exact number for this at all. It feels too contrived. Like, why would it be whole numbers anyway? How come there aren't fractions like months or days too? Speaking in a sense of social responsibility: don't date anyone so young that you'll go to jail for being with them, and don't date anyone so old that they'll go to jail for being with you. Beyond that, be in a relationship with so…

  • I don't really care, whenever I am adequately prepared and fulfilled. I'm not going to rush being a parent for my own sake, the child's wellbeing should be the best idea, even if you have to wait until you're older and have saved money.

  • Re: Me & My Best Friend?

    tyciol - - LGBT

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    You're right that it's not guaranteed to ruin the friendship or anything. The key is to focus on what made you friends in the first place and not forget about that in the midst of exploring other things like romance, that way even if it cools down you'll still have it.

  • Re: what do i do?

    tyciol - - LGBT

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    If a girl is not a bisexual and she is dating a girl, wouldn't that make her a lesbian? Unless of course she is a heterosexual who dates people of the same sex whom she doesn't find romantically or sexually attractive... which would be interesting to ask her about. So, first clarify that, and then you can work up to telling her I suppose. I think it'd be better to start slow about how you value your friendship and how those feelings have been growing into something bigger, rather than to blurt i…

  • Re: My best friend and I?

    tyciol - - LGBT

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    The key seems to be working up the confidence to talk with her, I don't see how you'd resolve this without conversation. Since you're more serious about it and don't just want to do it drunk, try to work up the confidence with something besides alcohol this time. One way is to converse with her about other touchy issues, build closeness and trust so that you'll be less afraid to talk about what you want to. Just remain honest about it an don't feign interest in other stuff for that purpose.

  • Re: I like stuff

    tyciol - - LGBT

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    Um, seriously I do think sex-only relationships count too. Or are you saying you identify as a 100% pure heterosexual if you like to 69 with the same sex? I really don't think so. Sexuality is something you can apply to both romantic and sexual things. You can be heterosexual romantically and homosexual sexually I suppose... but if that's the case saying 'bisexual' is the most honest when referring to emotional/sexual feelings collectively.

  • Re: It's About Time, But I Finally Did It!

    tyciol - - LGBT

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    Congrats. No way I'm telling my mom that :p I mean, if she asks sure, but for a lot of people it's awkward discussing issues related to that with family.

  • Honestly, after hearing about your other problems, your grandmother being a racist doesn't seem like a big deal. I am a bit confused, are you sleeping on a couch or a cot? You were switching between the two in your description. I don't think it's that bad, I fall asleep on the couch all the time. Experiment with different sleeping positions, like prone/supine/side, if it is too extreme one direction then extreme in the other direction may balance it out. One option is bartering with your parents…

  • Re: Help with abusive sister

    tyciol - - Friends and Family

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    I would not call this behaviour 'abusive'. She's being antagonistic, I'll give you that, but not 'abusive'. She's protective of her privacy, so respect that. She also has a desire to use the computer, acknowledge that too. If you do care about your relationship with her then try and mend it. Be nice to her so that maybe she may be willing to sit down with you and talk things out. If you can just establish better repoor then she'll have more trust and not get so angry at you or think you're tryin…

  • Re: My brotherrr....

    tyciol - - Friends and Family

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    I don't think you can get in trouble just for being in the house if there's marijuana. If it's obviously being grown there they're going to ask the owner of the house rather than the babysitter. That said, she doesn't have to babysit if it makes her nervous. She can tell her brother what she found and ask him to get rid of it if she wants her I suppose.