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How old were you when you started puberty? I am not completely sure here. The only thing I have a definite age for was first ejaculation which was 11y9m and just as I was starting secondary school. In the last year of primary school (year 6 in the UK, 10-11 y/o) I became aware that I was looking at the girls a lot more when previously I had mostly ignored them so I think my testosterone had started rising during that year. How long after starting puberty did you have your first ejaculation? I do…

Quote from Astrid_svein: “do you do this counting? ” I have never started the day with the idea that I will count how many orgasms I have, or with the idea to have as many as possible. But last thing at night I can look back over the day and remember the orgasms.

Quote from naturelover-VT: “What kind of quick splashes are you? You can't satisfy a woman like that. ” Of course not, and it is probably better not to practise cumming quickly for that reason. But, when there is no girl/woman there, it's fine to be curious about things like this and, with guys, it's like anything that can be compared will be, even things that are of no practical value.

1m40s and yes I did, once, time it with the stop-watch on my phone. That was also from first touch to cumming. But that isn't what I normally do. Normally, I get close and the edge for a while before finally cumming as that makes the orgasm more intense and also means I get some good feelings for longer.

Between cumming on something and washing it, there is a visible mark. Obviously before it dries it is quite obvious but even after it dries there will be a patch that is slightly white/crusty. Usually, it washes out fine so things that have been though the washing machine won't have permanent stains. As Colin says, your parents are unlikely to be surprised that you j/o - your dad almost certainly did it at a similar age, and maybe still does when you mum isn't in the mood. Also, marks on the she…

Quote from Birds18: “I am done anything sexual yet so I don’t have an actual opinion. When I masturbate I always have some sort of towel so when I bust it goes in the towel and not on my stomach. ” which is certainly consistent with: Quote from Birds18: “I don’t think I want to have sex with another guy but if I did I don’t think I would want him to pull out and squirt on my back or my stomach. I don’t see a point in having sex and then finishing on someone’s body. ” So what is the point of sex?…

Quote from maseb: “Quote from Alanjr: “Quote from Taylor Garrett Kinsley: “why give a boy a blowjob and then use a condom to have sex with him. anyone ever thought about that. What since does it make. ” Duh! It prevents preg dummy! ” If you can get a boy pregnant a condom is the last thing you need to worry about ” In Alan's defence, the question does not specify that it is another boy giving the blow job or on the receiving end of the sex. That's one interpretation, on the basis that Taylor is …

I didn't have this problem in the UK - we don't have check-ups any time around puberty. As far as I understand it, the rationale is that very few people have physical problems in their teens. Have you heard of the bathtub curve? Usually, it is applied to equipment and describes a situation in which, when pieces of equipment go wrong, it is either very soon after starting to use it or very much later. That's because the two causes of failure are distinct - the early failures are things that were …

Quote from smithy21: “good riddance may her time in hell be long and painful we should take this opportunity to end the monarchy ” It is fine to have a debate about whether a republic would be an improvement over a constitutional monarchy, and to me it is not completely clear. I would say a republic is absolutely better than an absolute monarchy but a constitutional monarchy,, where the monarch does not exercise any real power but does whatever parliament chooses, is a popular model in many coun…

Quote from Orangeandlong: “I don't consider myself bi...however I will do some things with guys more as an experimentation. I don't really have feelings for guys though. The stuff I have done is like hj and bj. Never had sex with a guy though ” I think this is one of the difficulties of labels and the complexities of sexuality. Personally, I've been all the way with a girl and really enjoyed it. All I have done with another boy is jack each other off and some frot, and I don't really get turned …

Quote from Alanjr: “I like to see the sperm come out when I beat off. ” Yes, that was the whole point of the other thread I mentioned and the conclusion that 79% of guys also like to see it. But the relevance to this thread is whether the desire to watch that would be enough to override the instinct to, when your dick is trusting into someone else and you reach of the point of no return, thrust in as hard as possible and get your sperm as far into them as possible rather than pull out. As I ment…

I assume you mean during anal? I've never really had an urge to do that, but on the basis that when you're in any hole the urge is to push in and deliver your sperm there, and given that with another boy there is no risk of pregnancy, pulling out would not seem a very natural choice. Does it reduce the risk of STIs? Or is this something conditioned by porn? I did post a poll a while back: For guys who ejaculate - do you watch? which came to the conclusion that most guys (79%) like watching thems…

Quote from HannahW: “Pulling out is definitely NOT a safe form of birth control but not sure why you’d need to do it if you’re wearing a condom and she’s on the pill ” About the only time pulling out would be suitable as the sole method of birth control is if you are thinking that now is not the ideal time for a child, but you are set up and would welcome one if she did get pregnant. One example of that would be a married couple between children - they've know they will have another one at some …

Quote from Pultost: “Quote from BlackParadePixie: “Quote from pahern0317: “Quote from BlackParadePixie: “Quote from pahern0317: “Every boy does it. ” every boy?? ” I never took a survey. ” well i'm pretty sure it's not every boy. ” It depends on how old they are. I'm pretty sure that a boy over 12 years old that doesn't masturbate doesn't exist. xD ” In my previous reply I said "almost every boy" because I wanted to allow for the more extreme kind of asexuality and also that a few of thoses whos…

Quote from Setris: “I am the youngest and I have seen my brother do it in secret but I am not hiding it. ” I think an older brother whose younger btother hasn't started may want to keep it a secret to avoid answering questions about it. Once he knows you have started too it may makes things easier.

For boys at least, it is much less common prior to puberty but once we reach puberty almost all guys do it. With puberty we start to get horny and there is a really strong urge to respond to that. Masturbating is an easy and safe way to deal with that urge and feels wonderful as well.

Quote from Durango: “Throughout history there are people who have said certain sexual relations were wrong - same sex, sex with someone who's related to you, sex with someone of a different ethnicity or religion, sex where there's major differences in age between participants. ” And at one time, even sex with yourself, i.e. masturbation was considered wrong. For some people it still is and some take the very narrow viewpoint that the only legitimate form of sex is between two people, of opposite…

Quote from BJade: “... Neither of those are opinions, they're facts... ” I think the point about pregnancy is definitely a fact. There is no such thing as 100% reliable contraception, though some methods get pretty close. If a guy was to get his young sister pregnant he would face the wrath of his parents on two counts: 1. That she was too young to be pregnant, though obviously how young is too young is a matter of opinion, influenced by social norms. 2. That the sex was incestuous. As I may hav…

Quote from Birds18: “I mean is experimenting just playing a little bit of I’ll show you mine if you show me yours just kind of comparing? ” I think I'd call "I'll show you mine and you show me yours" comparing if the two people are the same sex or curiosity if they are opposite sexes. I think we know that most guys glance around at the "competition" if there is an opportunity and "I'll show you mine and you show me yours" between guys is like more of the same except that there is no pretence of …

Quote from theboyleon: “How comes you can all shoot like hell? When I cum it always just slowly drips out, sometimes really just a little bit. Can I change that somehow? ” You may be able to have some influence on it as several things seem to affect it. For me, the biggest thing is how long I have been aroused before finally cumming, especially if I have spent longer close to orgasm but not quite going over the edge. That seems to build up some tension which is finally released when I cum. Other…